Thursday 29th December 2022
Blog No.175
Wow, what a December we’ve all had. If it’s not the fact that we have to arrange family celebrations for the one day of the year e can eat and drink what we want but we had to deal with viruses and – degrees cold weather.
I was going to do the blogmas that I did the year before but it crept up on us before we knew it and I didn’t have time to prepare. I never like to do the same thing every year but I am posting on Twitter a lot more. so have a look on there and you will be able to follow me on my hairdressing and barbering fun journey that I am on.
Christmas like every year is a major build up and then in a cough and sneeze it’s gone. I, like every year (but I’m fine with it), spend it with my 6 furbaby kitties. This year was a little sad, due to my eldest baby boy cat passing the year before. Every day feels strange without him but December always brings the memory back closer to my heart.
Well on a happier note, I have got closer to a few of my clients this year. Great friendship is always better than relationships I think. This year I have made 5 new friendships that I value greatly. We have had fun in session and out of session. I have had lots of fun apart from that but choosing your closest friends is not always possible with everyone. Friendship happens without you noticing it sometimes.
It happens with you enjoy each other’s company one day at a time and before you know it you have known each other for 3-4 or more years.
Time passes much more quickly than we realize but in that time you get to know one another and then you realize that life is not just materialistic but more importantly knowing that you have someone there to put out a helping hand when you need it.
Choosing to be in the industry comes with big decisions over time. I chose to be a mistress because it’s in my nature and over the years family started to put their noses in where it wasn’t needed. So I had to make the choice of progression or family. Unfortunately, if anyone is holding you back on what you want to do or be then sorry they have to go. A harsh decision but we only have one life and we shouldn’t waste it. So the consequences of my decision comes with Christmas day being alone with the kitties (which I love) and birthdays being just another day (apart from this one just gone when I was 50 years old) but I’m fine with that.
I have been a mistress for a long time and looking back over the years on how I have changed and developed I can sit here now and say I am very happy in my own skin. Yes, I have gone from being a soft individual that maybe anyone could have walked all over ( i don’t mean trampling as I do the trampling in my sessions) to a tough old bird (as someone once described me) that would give you a good hiding if the situation needed it. Much wiser is what I am now but unfortunately not as wealthy as I would like to be due to the pandemic. It has not helped a lot of us really but we are not the only ones as it’s everyone internationally that is suffering from it as well.
So as I mentioned earlier, I would have loved to do something special for you in December but I have something just as enjoyable in the coming months that will make up for it.
If you look at my Twitter page you will see that I launched the first of my new design hairdressing capes. I will be releasing more colours in time to come but I thought that red would be appropriate for Christmas. I had been working on the design for it for a good while and gave my twitter flowers (as I mistakenly called them one time by mis-spelling followers and it has stuck ever since) a sneak peek in the weeks previously and it intrigued them greatly. They were asking questions but I didn’t want to give a direct answer until I was ready. I research the design a lot to make sure no one else had thought of it first and was unable to find anywhere that did these types of hairdressing capes.
So if you are interested in purchasing a newly designed cape let me know, (even if it is a mix of fabrics, etc you have made up yourself) contact me and we can discuss it further.
So on that topic of discussion, I will bid you good night as it is 3.15 am and my eyelids are feeling heavy.
Take care in all you do sweetie and more importantly stay safe x
Thursday 30th June 2022
Blog No.170
When I was putting yesterday’s blog together I didn’t realize that I would be so eager to design another one. It really all depends on eBay and their start-up allowances of how many products you can build your shop up in the first month or so. They change their rules all the time but let’s hope it is all good from now on.
I feel I have got the bug for designing t-shirts now (don’t worry that’s the only bug I have as I am 100% healthy in myself). So if I design them faster than I can upload them on eBay I will do a blog on each one and the fetish it was designed around and upload it on here. Then this gives you the advantage to have them before anyone else.
So today’s t-shirt is a bit cheeky but it is passable for anyone that wants to wear it. It covers a Body Worship, Tattoo, Leather, Spike, Power Dressing, and Dominant Mistress Look fetish. As you can see that is a couple or more handfuls of fetishes if ever I did see one. I still can’t believe that is me but this is what corsets do to an ample body.
If there are any topics you would like me to design a t-shirt around, please let me know and I will do so for you.
I will always advertise on eBay as well as here but if you would like to buy through an anonymous bank transfer instead (no name will be shown on your statement but it is my account) then that is fine as well. Contact me and we can talk about it then.
Well, my 3 am spurt of energy is finally coming to an end and I need to sleep.
So keep watching this space to see what new products I will come up with.
Take care in all you do sweetie and talk soon.
P.S. Just to let you know…the pricing on eBay is in dollars with free postage.
They are printed in England so it should be an average delivery time (2 to 5 days) after they have been completed and packaged and ready to post to you.
I have had t-shirts from the same brand for years and they are made with a nice soft non-iron cotton fabric. Hang them up and they will be crease-free when dry. Also, a major plus is the image and wording do not crake when pulled tight or with movement. Even over the past 4 years that I have had my first t-shirts from them. I am mentioning this from my own experience.
Any questions please contact me as I will always be pleased to hear from you.
Learning a new skill from scratch is quite difficult until you know how. Then when you know how it’s the maintaining and upgrading it when it needs it. Nothing easy and if it is it’s not worth pursuing it.
January itself was a strange month as I launched Lucys Fetish Closet on 1st January at @12 midnight. Before then I had had this project under wraps and no one could see it, which was comforting (like my baby) but then when it was out in the open it made me feel different about myself.
I would sit looking through it and think “wooooow i have just made that website”. It took a while to sink in but I think it just has now.
2021 was a big eye-opener for me. As you would have read before, I have always wanted to have an e-commerce website (for the 14 years I have been in the industry) so I can do as I please and show you all that is possible.
I have looked at many youtube videos to see the process from the influencers that have started similar businesses. I realize that I am nowhere near as popular as they are and the reaction to my website will not be as explosive as it was and is with them.
Over time I am hoping that I will make decent sales but I think first it will be ‘The Dark Side’ subscription that could take off much better.
The interest in that project has been amazing. It is because you will be able to take your own fantasy journey from your own device. Choose who you want to be at that moment in time and then switch to another character when the last emotion has worn off.
I appreciate everyone that has helped me and stayed by my side since it began. Believe me, this is only the start as I have many ideas for photos, videos, and more.
If you want to try your hand at being a master or mistress, Sub or slave then The Dark Side will show you that way. This is not going to be anime or Simms but a real journey that will help you bring your wildest BDSM fantasies to life (well from your device).
Then if you wish to act out your fantasies that you have seen on your device then there may be an opportunity for you to do so in the future. This is something else I have in mind but that will be a project that I will have to get other people involved in. I will keep you updated when I can.
Well, I just wanted to update you on the progress of Lucy’s Fetish Closet as I have been extremely busy with taking appointments when I can together with working on projects in the back office of both websites.
I will keep you posted on my social media every day and do message me whenever you wish as I love to hear from you.
Take care in all you do and talk again soon…
Friday 24th December 2021
Blog No.162/ Blogmas No.24
Wowee Who would have thought that December could have passed so quickly. I must admit it has been difficult to fit the daily blogmas and my website work on the same day but I got there, well nearly there. As we still have today and tomorrow of Blogmas and then 6 days of December from then on. I will see about 2 blogs a week from January onwards. Random subjects but will still be interesting.
Now I know I have mentioned that other letters are difficult to find a fetish for but this is really difficult as nothing came up when I googled it. So all can think of is X-Rated.
18 Plus…
X-rated is, as we all know not for under 18 years olds but I think and I know you think that kids know a lot more than we let on. I’m not going to go on like that as I will show my age but times have changed.
What Is Classed As X-Rated?…
Laws these days are good for one and not for another. it’s the same as when adult websites will not allow BDSM photographs but they will allow females with all showing all their wares on non-login websites. This means underage kids can look at it all Crazy but it will still get through the rules in one way or another.
Different Opinions As To What Is Explicit And What Is Normal…
As I am in the industry I feel that BDSM and naked male bodies are normal to me (I have a different normal to everyone else) but to someone that is a regular lifestyle and X-rated viewing is a luxury at weekends maybe would think it is not normal. I do not mix with females in my line of sessions. There are more guys that are interested in seeking a mistress to session with than females. Then when they do contact me I am very wary and give them a lot more questions to reply to than I would a guy.
Contact me…
On this point, I would mention to contact me and we can converse about your fetish but I don’t take part in anything that you would call X-rated. If it is along the line of BDSM or anything on my likes list then do CONTACT ME and yes we can converse about it.
I will look forward to any one of you that abides by what I have requested and hear from you soon…
Thursday 19th December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.19.
Whatever your fetish might be it is always unique to you. Starting your journey to introduce your personal fetish to another human being is a big step.
You may not be interested in the other things we talk about but I have planted the seed that you will never forget.
You may dismiss it and think you’re not interested in that particular subject but over time you will carry on in your everyday life and something will come up in conversation at some point that will remind you of what we have conversed about.
It plays with your mind like a catchy tune of an annoying advert.
You can’t stop thinking about me for whatever reason you feel that you are attracted to me.
Even now there was something that drew you to my website. My boyish looks or my dominating stature. Whatever it is you won’t forget about me.
Maybe in a week, month or year or more you will return to take another look at my intriguing persona that only I can perform at its best.
I am unique in every way, I have done that on purpose.
No one else can give you what you want because I am the only one that can give you it the Mistress Lucy way…….
I will look forward to receiving your messages. You will contact me.….I know you will because you have read all the way through this blog to the last line of my content.
I’m waiting for you……
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