Monday 9th November
Blog No.124.
To become the very best you can be is not possible alone. We all need help in one way or another. Starting from the beginning can be like running on the spot if you don’t have the correct knowledge.
I did start on my own as I really didn’t think that I would be were I am today, 11 years on. It took me a while to realise that mistressing was my chosen vocation and that it would take over my life as it has.
Many people, when starting to dip their toe into the industry don’t know whether they will like it or not. They hear about it from a friend or see something on the internet and think it takes a freaky type of person to delve into the dark side of the imagination. Depends on how deep your prepared to go as to what your comfortable and willing to open yourself to. There is many mild and extreme fetishes but not all is everyone’s cup of tea.
May 2017
To the normal person (what is normal these days) a job in the adult industry is not a proper job. How wrong they are. It is much more than a full time job, it is a job that will take over you whole being as a person and in return it will give you the life you once dreamed of. Freedom to do as you please, when you please and charge how much you want to for anything you do.
To apply for this dream job you have to have a certain type of mind set other wise you will be eaten up by the different type of savoury/unsavoury people that are in this industry. The unsavoury individuals are the ones that are jealous of your success or frightened of you because of what you will dominate them to do by manipulating their imagination to what they really deep down like but are hesitant to expose it to anyone else but themselves. There are also very nice people in this fun filled fetish world. People that want to help and see you blossom into a amazing mistress etc.
I was happy plodding along doing my own thing for quiet a few years. I developed my skills of various different fetishes to entertain my own imagination as well as my clients of all walks of life. I grew to understand the moto to the saying ‘ Never judge a book by its cover’. When I accepted this I met and got to know a lot of fabulous people that helped me progress in my journey of freedom. I say freedom because this is the life i am living now. Maybe not right now (pandemic national lockdown) but now as in i have piece of mind that i have grown a client list that will be loyal to me and be with me through good and tough times. I don’t really call these type of clients, clients as they know me much better than a regular client. They are very much friends, They have allowed themselves, visa versa to become deeper into the mistress relationship than as if they just wanted a one off BDSM session with just any mistress.
This also is the same for web designers, social media influencers or business/project assistants. To give me what I want and need for my business they have to get to know the real me which is much deeper than Mistress Lucy.
For example….
To find a great or even excellent website designer is trial and error. There are many out there preaching that they have a portfolio of what fancy website designs they do. Charge high end prices but lack the customer service skills that gain the trust of the quality client.
As we all know, firstly finding a quality client is hard enough in any business but keeping them is easy when you know how. I had been looking for a web designer for a good few years. I had got to a stage in my career where i need to go to that next level and being on social media wasn’t enough. To be looked at as a profession mistress I needed to exhibit what I could and can do in a professional format that clients could see for themselves. Asking questions over phone calls and emails was all well and good but to be on the serious mistress websites I had to have my own website with my name in the domain name.
So my friend was looking on a site one day (as you do) and he came across 2-3 websites of mistresses that where offering similar services to myself. He said in passing conversation that I should check them out and investigate if I could have a website similar to theirs. The websites looked fantastic but there was one that really stood out to me but i thought that it looked far to expensive for me.
I contacted all 3 mistresses and enquired about where they had got their professional looking websites from and the pricing. I didn’t get any reply’s from them but in the time I was waiting I noticed at the bottom the first page of the website business name and details. My friend also pointed that out in a later conversation. I contacted the web designers with all the same details, what I wanted and the price and how I would go about getting my name on the web address. They all came back with different prices and time scales. As I was mentioning before about customer service, I don’t know these people so I have to go with the inclination I’m getting when they reply to me.
The first was far to expensive for what I could afford at the time and it was an abroad business. I’m not against abroad but you hear of so many scams from oversea countries.
The second was a bit slap dash with his etiquette and that gave me a unprofessional image of the business even though the website i was guided to looked very professional.
The third replied to me with a very friendly approach, professional but very polite. I think if i remember rightly, his email was brief but said its best to chat on the phone first of all and he can explain things better. I was very naïve when it came to technology so i had to start from somewhere. My phone was my life line to my clients and nothing else. We spoke that same evening and Peter was a very pleasant guy to talk to. Not to techi or immature with his explanations but just enough for me to understand the basics.
Nov 2020
2-3 years on from that conversation we are very good friends and as you can see, he has built and kept running a fine specimen of a fabulous website. Many think building and running a website is easy but listen to me now… there is more than you see to run any website let alone a professional website. Behind the scenes is security walls and protection from hackers and lots of other things that not even I would know about.
So I would highly recommend Peter @ Elite UK Mistress. Recommendations are better than cold searching sites your not familiar with. He is very good on design of all types of websites (not just mistress websites), upkeep and price. He has been in I.T and computers for many years.
You can see his website by clicking this link www.eliteukmistresses.co.uk or contact his email on info@elitemistresses.co.uk and he will discuss with you all you needs to help you build your business the way you would like it to be.
I am extremely happy with Peters services and how he has help my business grow over the years.
Your a star sweetie and very much worth your weight in good a much more. Keep up the good work…
Friday 16th October 2020
Blog No.123
To all who have been following my journey through the years, you would of seen my website progression and what a fabulous success it has been. I’m not a film star yet lol but I’m happy what it has given me.
My web designer Peter is a master at his trade and without his help I would not of got this far, thank you Peter your a star.
I think I mentioned a couple or months ago that I am now looking at starting a membership website because this one has restrictions on what I can post in my photography galleries due to no login page.
Every website has rules and limitations granted but at least if you have to login then you have to be of a certain age to do so etc then that will give me a free reign to an extent to post more interesting content.
Also I’m hoping to be able to post videos as well as photos for a small charge. As I am fed up having to cut the costs with other websites and ending up with hardly anything for all the work I put into it.
This is something I will converse with peter about but I’m sure it is possible in one way or the other.
Something else I want to mention…
I am not going to go on about this too much as I know everyone is getting tired of what is going on in the world right now but unfortunately it is ruling our lives. More than what we ever wanted.
As from today I have decided I will not be taking physical meeting appointments for the time being. I have had to cancel 3/4 of my appointments this month.
Either because the pandemic has hit their work and they are frightened of contracting and spreading it or the 3 tier/lockdown has forced them to stay away.
The main thing is, I have kept healthy and virus free all this year and I intend to stay that way. So if I have to put appointments on hold for now then I’m afraid that’s what I will do.
I am still available for phone chat and video calls on WhatsApp and skype if you wish but not to meet.
Do contact me either through text/call or email. All the details are on my Contact Page EG: phone number and link direct to my email address.
“Oh this dam world, its like a rollercoaster ride that I just want to get off of but cant”.
Take care sweeties and stay as healthy as you possibly can.
Hope to hear from you soon 😷
Saturday 3rd October
Blog No.121.
When a mistress has near on everything apart from multiplying more of what she has, your always looking out for different things to add to the collection.
This is what I have been doing over time but finding a lot of the same thing. It is not worth purchasing more canes or anal toys for example if it does exactly the same thing as all the other toys I have.
Equipment like all equipment needs to be worn in. So for me to have more things than I know what to do with is a waste of space and money.
Canes – Its all in the wrist and arm action to make an experience different.
Anal – Its all in the technique and how I use the toy on you to make it a different experience each time.
When I take my anal sessions I’m finding that my clients prefer my fingers/hand more than a solid piece of lifeless silicone eased where the sun don’t shine.
I think a lot the time when designers try to invent a new toy they come to the same conclusion. So all they can do is make it in a different colour or make it with different looking knobberly bits on it in a way that has not been made before.
My hands have a lot of experience in giving pleasure so they will be continued to perform the stimulation the way you all like it and better.
Although I have found something that I have seen in the past I over looked it before.
It will make grown men cry and balls shrive back into the body at the sight of it. Oh I love to see subs wince and the thought of what I will do next.
Being that it is made out of clear Perspex it means nothing is hidden and everything…I mean everything is seen.
The only thing I think that it has to be adjusted in the design is it needs a opening for the thallus to be easily put into place. If you are of a different girth to the open itself then it could be rather uncomfortable or damaging when you get excited.
So any small naughty boys out there who have done something you need punishing over, think wisely before taking the next step to you dream.
Don’t shy away from me boy… as you know you like a mature mistress to take a firm hold of you in one hand, given a good strong punishment to you with the other hand. Trust me…your never forget it…
APOLIGISES BUT DUE TO THE WEBSITE NOT BEING A MEMBERSHIP WEBSITE I CAN NOT PUT A PHOTO OF THE TOY AS IT IS TOO REVEALING BUT I HOPE YOU HAVE GOT A GOOD IDEA OF THE DESCRIPTION AS TO WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE.
DO EMAIL ME IF YOU WANT TO SEE A LINK TO THE PRODUCT I HAVE SHOWN ON A DIFFERENT WEBSITE…
Thursday 9th July 2020
Blog No.119.
Everyone has a personal opinion of when it is going to ending and when normality is going to begin again but when it will happen is a confusion to you as well as me at the moment.
Nice To Be Back
With the Super Saturday passing last weekend and people showing their stupidity of congregating in large groups or even packed streets (eg: London as being one of them) just for a pint it is not going to be any time soon that rules will change and let us get on with our lives the way we sensibly can.
When you think about it…everything is more expensive when going out to pubs and restaurants any way. Money is tight in so many different ways now that we all have to be careful even if you are in a job that work is ongoing.
So for idiots that are self ignorant and decide to pick a fight with someone for no reason just spoils it for all of us, ending in the pubs will close again.
Open For Kinksters And All
Alcohol can be a sensible thing to consume but to a big percentage it is the route to all evil (just like money but that’s a different blog if I decide to make it)
When it has come down to what I have been thinking about over the last 4-5 months (wow has it been that long) is ‘Money is not everything’.
I am going to look at quality of time with my clients than trying to get as much money out of them as possible (like some industry workers).
My tribute rates will be 4 prices and nothing more and nothing less. there are as follows:
- 1 hour = £100
- 1.5 hours = £150
- 2 or more hours = £200
- Over night stay = £500 (i will explain more on this subject a bit later in the blog)
If you are able to tribute gift more than the above prices then that is down to you but I will not expect more.
A Mistress Bench With A Difference
These are tough times and I am very grateful for my clients that visit me. If we help each other then life will be a much happier place.
The renovations that I have done have been jobs that I could not do whilst taking appointments in previous months.
I have added a few things and refurbished a few other things but all in all everything looks fantastic to what have expected.
There are a few things I still need to do but that will come in time when I have the spare money.
OVER NIGHT STAYS
I have had a few clients in the past ask me about over night stays. I haven’t been able to accommodate because I have not had anywhere to put them.
They have visited me for a session and then when left me gone onto their hotel because they are traveling through my area to a further
Luxury And Comfort For Sure
destination for work etc..
So I thought that why leave and go to a boring hotel with 4 walls and a bed when you can stay in a comfy 100% memory foam mattress bed and be teased by the decoration of my Mistress Studio.
As you can see from the photos I have taken you will have a spacious shower/toilet area, well equipped kitchen area, and a double bed with a mattress that is so comfortable you will have trouble getting up in the morning.
Equipped For Comfort
I have came to the amount of £500 so you can have a lengthy session of what you would like to do (massage, BDSM or combination etc) and then a meal (if you require anything specific you’ll need to let me know before had so i can get it in) and then a shower before a good night sleep.
Now if on the other hand your a kinksters that likes to be tied to the bed for the night or act out your fantasy of being a female for the time your with me then it can be arranged. Just mention you requirements in your inquiry and we can converse about it in detail.
I know there are some of you extreme kinksters that like to be locked away in mistresses cage for the night so your confined, restricted and not seen. That also can be arranged. Let me know of any aliments or past injuries you have so I know you will come out of the cage all ok apart from aching and satisfied with your fantasy.
So all that has been said I am very excited to start my appointments again and have fun in all ways that a mistress like to. I will look forward to receiving your requests. By all means email or text me so we can follow up with a phone call if you statistics are to my liking.
Tuesday 26th May 2020
Blog No.118.
Good evening my lovelies. I have been thinking a lot in the past weeks about my new venture that I will be adding to my list of services.
I was in a text meeting with my web designer yesterday about how we should go about putting my new website together.
This website will still be up and running and will always be my top priority but I need to also have a vanilla website for my future business ideas.
I looked through all my photos that I have taken over the years and put together a compilation of regular photographs that a vanilla/regular person wouldn’t be offended by, EG: No butt plugs ect lol
It took me a while to get my vanilla mind on track to look at my mistress photography in a regular way of thinking.
I am far from normal but I know how to think and act in certain situations.
This new website will have a slight fetish twist to it but in a regular way. I have to do it this way because of the places I will be advertising it.
Not sure where at the moment but when im out there you will all know about it.
The fee’s for my vanilla photo sessions will be competitive to the other companies that offer regular photo sessions.
I will be still doing the appointments from my home in my entertainment studio because this will keep it all discreet and the main thing is keeping the cost down for you as a client.
I have been on many photo shoots over the years and for what they do, they are asking stupid money for the products that they produce.
Thousands of pounds with some companies, its unreal. How is a average type of person suppose to afford that, I do not know.
Even if you are a model starting out you don’t have that type of money.
So keep a look out for my blogs in the coming weeks as now that I have my future business on track I will feel more comfortable to blog more.
In the past weeks of this dam Corona virus/CV19/Pandemic (whatever you want to call it) I have been very confused on what to do and where to go with my business.
I think like me, a lot of us are getting a bit fed up with it because the Prime Minister is showing that he really doesn’t know his arse from his elbow in this situation.
My thoughts have been going in all directions on how to bring my life style back to a comfortable level again and now I am there I only have to put plans into action.
So now I will be back annoying your fetish minds once again, lol
Any thing you would like to ask me just do so. Keep healthy and well and talk soon…
**NEWS UPDATE**
Monday 25th May 2020
Hi everyone, I thought I would give you an update on what’s been happening in the time between my last blog and now…
As we all know, at some point no one knew the future to anyone’s career or lifestyle because of what we were being told through the media and from the leaders of our countries that we all live in. (I say this as I am not sure who is reading this and what country you are based in).
Now we understand what a hard job it is to be prime minister and how to control the population their countries.
Photography Shoot Example
As what he advises us to do it is down to us as individuals to do as he says to help clear this terrible pandemic up as fast as we can.
Unfortunately there is a greater population that ignores the advice and does as they please.
Enough about what I think and onto the future of appointments and fun fetish times.
I am hoping that my appointments will resume back on the 1st July 2020.
So I thought I would give you an update on how I am going to proceed with my new normality.
I say new normality because it will never be going back to the way it was before.
Although we are not 100% what is going on with this pandemic we all have to be super cautious and careful from now on how we proceed in the times we do meet people.
Fetish Photography Shoot Example
I may joke about a full body condom is need but in all seriousness I will proceed (as I have done) with gloves through out certain fetishes that I will allow in my appointments.
As everyone knows I don’t and hadn’t allowed any personal services in my appointments EG: Kissing etc so that eliminates out any contaminating of the virus.
This is one of the reasons why I don’t allow personal services to keep all body parts sanitised and hygienic at all times.
Also the main reason I don’t allow to get intimate with you or anyone Is because I prefer to keep those things for my own personal time.
The way I have work with my appointments has worked very well. So as they say ‘if aint broke, don’t break it’.
The newest service I will be bringing into my offerings is a larger photography service.
I used to and still do offer a make-over services with transformations from male to female photo sessions.
I am going to widen that offer to a vanilla photography service also.
So if you and your family would like to have a photo session or baby photos then do let me know.
Sexy Photography Shoot (male to female/ or male or female)
A lot will say that because of where you found me EG; Adult industry that you wont be wanting to tell anyone about me.
Well don’t worry as I am going to be advertising in normal places as well as the adult industry.
Also when things get better I will be offering a call out service so I can come to you in your home or where ever you wish to have photographs taken.
I have portable backdrops etc depending on the photo shoot that you request to have to bring with me. So all will be near on the same as if you came to visit me.
The only difference will be is that my dress up wardrobe and props are far to much to bring with me so I will only be able to bring a fraction of them.
I will also d photography shoots with animals but I would have to come to you as I have pets (cats) myself and I wouldn’t want them disrupted as they are not used to other animals in that way if you know what I mean.
Cat Portraits
Also pets are more relaxed in their own environments so the result of the images would be much better for you.
So there you go your Mistress Lucy is branching out and showing you her true colours.
I have always had a thing for photography but never know how to make it my living, now I can and will.
As they say a rest is as good as new start…I think that’s the saying but you know what I mean.
So do contact me for any ideas you may have and we can converse about them in more detail to your specifications.
I hope your all keeping well and smiling through out these strange times and I will let you know when appointments resume asap.
Friday 3rd April 2020
Blog NO.115.
As the days have past and it has now been near on 2 weeks of this lockdown, how time goes so quickly when your having fun…in some cases.
An Example Of What You Could See…
I have decided to be a bit more lenient on my online entertainment.So as you all know me as the strict old school mistress that wouldn’t show a knee cap, let alone a stocking top I think its about time you took a look at my only fans website.
As the lockdown is going on for a lot longer than any of us was expecting the fact of £16 ($20) per month is not a lot to have your addiction of Mistress Lucy satisfied.
As I have mentioned before I put a lot more content on there than I do here because I am not able to put videos on here.
It will be a mix of myself, activities of hairdressing etc and clients that have given their permission for me to use their images.
Also this is a non login website I am limited to what content I can put on here.
So if you would like to see a different side to me than you normally have done then only fans is the place to join.
Go on, you know you want to…
If you do not want to then that’s fine but anything else that is personally customised for yourself that you would like to participate in (photos, voicemails, phone chat, video chat) will be charged accordingly.
This is charged by a bank transfer only. I would normally accept amazon vouchers but due to the financial situation of the world at the moment I am only accepting cash.
If you can not do it through bank transfer(depending on what part of the world you are I) then the other way Is through only fans as a tip.
It is a very safe way of transferring money. I have been dealing with them for a while ow and have had no problems.
The only thing I would say is if you have an international lock on your debit/credit card for my English fans then you will need to call your bank and get it lifted. I had to do the same when I called the co op and nationwide.
Any problems in joining just le me know and I will help you. Everything is a little confusing when you dot know how.
So I will look forward to receiving your emails when you contact me…