Friday 10th January
Daily Blog Extra
Everyone likes to be touched in one way or another but not everyone likes to be tickled. It is an acquired feeling and like marmite, you either love it or hate it.
This is a difficult topic to find a photograph for. So please use your imagination to imagine what it would feel like to be tickled while you read through my blog.
This is a known fetish where individuals long to be tickled to the extreme sense of laughter.
Touching on the sensitive parts of their body gently at first and building up to a feeling of extreme hilariousness and maybe even wetting themselves a little or a lot.
If tickled in the same area for too long your body gets used to the feeling and after a while, it is not ticklish and you become immune to the touch.
To change frequently to different parts of the body keeps the tickle sensation much more alive but do be careful where you tickle as it can trigger a fitting sensation on rare occasions.
Although, tickling yourself is impossible because the brain is too clever. The brain will not tell your body part that you’re going to tickle yourself but if someone else is tickling you you won’t know where and when it is going to happen.
So then when it happens the brain will send that trigger to tell you to react in a certain way.
Now touching a body part EG: the back can be very sensitive. When giving a massage to your partner, running your hands of the area can turn into tickling without you even trying.
If they are extra relaxed then their nerve ends can be brought closer to the surface of their skin which will make them much more sensitive to your touch.
So whoever your touching and teasing be kind to them as without you realising it can turn into a tickle in a split second.
The body is an amazing but comic thing sometimes but very enjoyable if you’re in the right frame of mind.
If you are interested in a tickle torture or massage session contact me and we can converse more on the topic…
Wednesday 8th January 2020
Daily Blog NO.39.
There are so many reasons why men and women have breasts. The reason men have undeveloped breasts and only nipples are because we are all developed in our mother’s wombs that way. We are all born with nipples.
Women’s breast grow more than mens because we have the hormones estrogen and progesterone. Men do produce a small amount of estrogen but not as much as women.
That is why we increase breast growth through our younger years, up to our late teens
Nowadays the culture of transgender beings is brought more to our notice than back in the day.
This has helped men who have tendencies to like dressing in women’s clothing to be more open with their thoughts than hiding and be a closet kinkster.
A good percentage of guys make amazing looking females because they don’t have female cellulite which can be a big hindrance to us ladies when sculpting ourselves to the shape we dream about.
Having breasts helps with the hourglass curve of a media produced woman.
We should all be happy with what we were born with but we never are. The media are at fault with this because they stereotype the ideal womanly shape when really a female can look fantastic whatever her shape may be like.
For example, if a female has a small frame and develops A cup breasts through puberty then that is what her body is telling her she should make look good.
Yes, we can put implant/chicken fillets (as they are comically called sometimes) to boost our shape in a nice top but why are we doing that?
To impress who? If your doing it for the opposite sex then eventually when you do sleep together they are going to find out your true size or be very shocked when they go to feel your breast and it comes away in their hand.
What’s more traumatic for your new partner? Seeing you in your contented way because you’re not worrying if one chicken fillet is high than the other or be as fake as possible and being a major disappointment and never having a 2nd date with anyone?
Your choice……
Now If it’s for playtime or you have decided to change sex then fake implants and padding is a must.
The person you will be meeting will know that you are a part-time TV and will obviously know that your breasts arent real as you have a day job as a manly man lorry driver. So chicken implants is the only option.
When dressing up in playtime it can be equally as convincing if put together correctly.
I tend to think when men dress men up as women they lose that feminine touch that only a woman know-how to.
As in how to put make-up on, what goes together with what in an outfit, different shades of colours and the condition of your wig and how it is put on.
Also when a guy dresses as a female they have to remember to shave everywhere. That is what gives it away sometimes.
To vanilla men breasts on a woman are just for playing with in a sexual act apart from feeding their offspring.
So breasts are great in all ways whatever size you have
If you would like to have a male to female transformation session contact me and we can converse a little more….
Wednesday 8th January 2020
Daily Blog Extra
When having a once in a lifetime moment we all like to take photos to remember it from. So to all you Sisy maids and kinksters that love to wear women’s clothes to look better than ever, why not have a photo shoot.
It will include a full transformation with a natural-looking wig (many to choose from), Makeup and outfits that will make you look unrecognisable.
It is always best to let me know your chest, waist and leg measurement together with your footwear size. This is so I can make sure I have everything I need for your experience.
It also includes any photos that you would like or they can be put on my website for you to browse them whenever you want to.
I have many backdrops that can set the theme of whatever you wish.
The way I take my photos can be in a discreet way ( partial body shoots) or an open way (meaning your face is on show) but the way you will be made up you won’t have anyone recognise you.
If you have any birthmarks or tattoos you want to be hidden then it can be by clothing or theatrical makeup or camera angle.
Either way, your comfort is my top priority.
Within the time you are here, you can have a session of your choice. Whether it be BDSM or hairdressing etc the choice is yours.
For a 4 hour appointment, It will be a tribute cost of £300. If we go over time do not worry as if we are enjoying ourselves I will not mind spending more time together. Call it a girlie day of pleasure.
So if you are interested please contact me and we can discuss the finer details at our leisure…
Monday 6th January 2020
Daily Blog NO.37.
The hairdressing industry has been around for centuries but only if you really love something that makes you tingle inside does it become a fetish.
I never in my wildest dreams would think that it would be my most popular fetish I offer when I started mistressing.
The multitude of colours and types of materials there are to make capes out of is unreal.
This is why I have a sewing machine from a client who tributed me Amazon Gift Vouchers. I bought it because I can’t find the type of capes I’m looking for and I would prefer to design and make them myself.
Then the world is my oyster as they say. Anything that I can make a cape out of I will.
Now the same goes for aprons and hairnets. It’s only a shaped piece of material with a hem around it. So why in hells name are they so expensive!!!
Well, I don’t need to worry about that as I am going to have as many capes, aprons and hairnets as I possibly can make.
The more I make the better I get at making them. Oh, my life is getting much more fun every day that passes by…..what next!!!!!
If you have a Hairdressing fetish do contact me and we can talk more girlie fun…
Monday 23rd December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.23.
As I sit here in my office at home with my array of Christmas goodies on my side plate and my vegan oat coffee I look over my emails and come across this particular one which basically asks ‘How serious are you about your career in Mistressing?’
I was a little shocked by this question as I was briefing over my emails, not fully taking anything in seriously as they were mostly junk mail from companies trying to sell me something.
So had to double back on the email and read it through again.
They wanted to know how I can take it seriously as its pathetic how men dress as women etc… “Oh dear,” I said to myself as I could see I would need to blog about this topic to put things straight with anyone else that thought this.
So just to clear this up once and for all so everyone knows what I am all about.
I am a down to earth person that doesn’t take any crap from no one but on the other hand, I am trustworthy and never judge a human being whatever their colour, creed, age or appearance.
Now if you are disrespectful to me in a very disrespectful way then that’s a different matter. My punishment to you will be personal because you have chosen it to be that way, not me.
If a guy has a fetish of dressing in silky knickers and stockings or wants to have a full transformation I will be very serious and embrace his fetish the way he requests.
Unlike some Mistresses who will take your money, titivate with you and then send you on your way on the dot when your time is up.
I am completely different…As I could make a lot more money than I do but then I would then be in the category of a conveyor belt mistress, which I definitely am not.
I concentrate on quality over quantity. I prefer to get to know you first then I am able to give you much more of a customized service.
Sorry for sounding so formal but this is the only way I know how to explain this to you without sounding shabby if you know what I mean.
I have taken many on journeys of transformations in many different fetishes. Doesn’t matter to me how mild or extreme you are, you are all welcome.
I do like to stick to one ruling though and that is my age preference of over 35 years old.
The reason being is that younger guys in my experience don’t take the fetish world seriously. To them, if they are paying for a service it has to include a partially naked or naked mistress that will perform personal services with them or to them during the time that they have booked.
I am not that type of Mistress. I turn away at least 3-4 or more phone calls or texts a day because of this.
For the amount of polite and pleasant potential and regular clients I receive, overrules the young pathetic inquiries.
As we say in the industry “It comes with the job” which is very true…
If you would like to a customized journey with a genuine, non-judgemental and down to earth mistress then i would love for you to contact me in your own convenient time.
If it is out of my hours then please email me and I will pick up my correspondence at the nearest possible time.
Saturday 21st December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.21.
To anyone that doesn’t know about corsets, they come in female as well as male versions.
A corset is worn outside the clothing and is normally a plain material either cotton, PVC, Leather or faux leather.
A basque is for under the clothing. They are lace or a prettier material that underwear is normally made of.
The reason I say they will change your life is that they will change your look as well as your stature in every way.
If you don’t have a waist that is noticeable then you definitely will with a corset or basque.
It will take away your relaxed spin and make you stand, sit and walk with much more control.
Your breathing will slightly change EG: You will be much more aware of how you are taking each breath instead of taking it for granted.
I have dressed many guys in corsets and they are astounded about how they make them feel when laced in one.
It doesn’t have to be for a male to female transformation.
It can be for fetish play or whatever you choose the reason to be.
One thing I will say is when a guy is laced in a heavily boned corset they actually say that their admiration for ladies that wear them becomes greater than before.
Knowledge is powerful and fun at the same time.
So if you fancy experiencing being laced in one of my corsets then do contact me and we can converse much more.
You never know…You don’t know if you will like it til you try it. I will look forward to your inquiries…
Sunday 15th December 2019
PostmasNO.15.
When a client inquires about Breath Control they nearly always ask about smothering and facesitting. To an experienced player in the BDSM world, they will understand that facesitting has nothing to do with a sexual act of oral.
I do ask if the client is good at underwater swimming. This shows that they can hold their breathe for a quiet a while.
To perform a session of breathe control it’s not just sitting on their face and watching television.
Like any bespoke fetish, there is an art to it.
Smothering is also a form of breathe control but it is much more intense.
it is completely covering the head to make you feel totally intoxicated with the situation.
It can be performed with any part of the body that will cover the nose or mouth or both.
In some extreme sessions, it can include the neck and airways. I have to be careful how I say this for acceptable wording but you know what I mean.
Everyone has their own particular way they like their fetishes to be performed.
The items of clothing can make a big difference also. EG: In a cotton shirt/skirt/trousers or jeans can very breathable but PVC or Latex is not.
So if you would like me to test your airways contact me and we can converse about this topic and more…
Friday 13th December 2019
Postmas NO.13.
When anyone looks at a person in uniform it shows that they admire the authority that they could put upon you.
It depends on the type of uniform as to how much authority they have but a female in uniform shows a different type of authority.
Female supremacy is the correct title she is worthy of.
The power has to be within her otherwise she will blend into the surroundings and no one will take a blind bit of notice.
She must stand proud of your sexuality as a woman, a proud powerful woman that if she wishes she could have any man at her beck and call.
To do what she wants him to do when she wants him to do it. He would/could be her sub, slave, and servant and he will love to do anything she wishes of him.
Now a uniform doesn’t have to be anything of recognition. It could be just the way she decides to put her attire together.
Too many media minds think heels are the top desire to see a woman in to look powerful but this is not always the case.
If a dominate female ozzes power within herself then she could be in leisurewear and trainers and the sub will still kneel at her feet and worship her because he is assured of her power and stature by the way she controls him.
Any mistress of recognition would not be in leisurewear and trainers if not at the gym. These garments have a time and place to worn and its not within session time.
If you like a powerful female in uniform contact me and we can converse some more….
Wednesday 4th December 2019
Postmas NO.4.
The world of BDSM and mistressing is extremely larger than anyone can imagine.
It can range from the mild teasing to things that are best not mentioned as they are on the cusp of being taboo. I don’t want to get myself into trouble.
I will only talk with the clients that are interested in those type of fetishes.
The one topic of fascination that has been popular with my clients is ‘sounding’.
This is normally a medical practice that is performed to gently increase the urethra to take out any obstruction.
Many guys have found this to be an arousing stimulation (obviously not when they are with the doctor but when they are with their mistress).
It tests your will power and how long your hormones will keep you on the edge of climaxing, never tipping you until mistress says you can or lets you.
I am into the art of edging and sensing what your body is saying to me. How you react at every motion I make with the sounding implement. As it stroke the inside of your uretha with the tender loving care that it needs. Heightening your sensitivity with every millimeter it moves. Slipping and sliding with the lubricant will drive you crazy as you’ve never felt before
I have added to my collection of sounding equipment over the years and just recently added some new rosebud implements.
The varieties come in all different lengths and shapes eg: straight, curved, bumpy (I’m using novice language so everyone understands what I mean).
They are all made for extra stimulation including the electric stimulation sounding plug.
So if you are interested in exploring your taboo side with me or even start because you haven’t tried anything like this before, contact me and we can talk further
I will look forward to conversing more with you about the kinky side of your fantasies……..
Monday 2nd December 2019……
Postmas No.2.
Although a professional and experienced mistress is popular and well known she is only as busy as she wants to be.
Sundays can be busy and sometimes not but yesterday I had a lovely 3-hour massage appointment with a quota of ballbusting thrown in to spice it up.
My soft sensual hands, stroking over the stressed and overworked body of my client was just what the mistress ordered for his prescription to
feel better.
We all work hard in one way or another but everyone needs a bit of chill time.
Chill time to one person can mean a relaxing massage with slow, atmospheric, instrumental music that once they close their eyes it will transport them to where ever they want to go.
To another type of person, it can mean having a tall powerful woman with black thigh-high boots talking down to him and then giving him a swift strike of the knee, boot or/and fist in the proverbials to take him out of his stressful and manic lifestyle.
I say whatever floats your boat I’m fine with (as long as it’s within my rules, No personal services and the obvious, No underage anything and No bestiality).
As a mix up my client decided to have a relaxing massage with intervals of pain in a way he craved for.
I enjoy all my appointments because I access my clients before I invite them to arrange an appointment.
Nothing worse than being disrespected in my own home which will never happen.
If it does, that will be the last time you will be walking through my front door.
So as I was saying…. with every slow step I circled around him I was building him up for his next bout of stress relief.
I don’t have majorly powerful strikes but I don’t need to. It’s not in the power of the strike but the technic and where it hits.
It can be a light tap or a flick of the wrist but in the right place, it can send a grown man to his knees weeping for redemption.
So if you are a pain bunny and would like me to inflict a stress relieving session with myself then email me on MY CONTACT PAGE and we can discuss this matter further.
Look forward to hearing from you and receiving your inquiries…….