Saturday 14th March 2020
Daily Blog NO.105.
A comfort zone is different for everyone as we all have different weaknesses and strong points.
To take you out of your comfort zone can be uncomfortable for some people but to others it can be the thrill that drives them to their destination.
Adrenaline is something different but it still goes hand in hand with your comfort zone as that is what guides you to the level that you are happy or unhappy with.
Even though you might not be happy having your limits pushed but when you do it takes you to places you may never of been before.
Helping you to experience news ways of enjoyment that you may never of thought you could push yourself to.
Some things may not tick your boxes at first but then you dip your toe into a fetish that you thought was out of your league and you may some what like or not like it…
If you would like to have your comfort zone pushed to another level then contact me and we converse about we can put that into reality
Thursday 12th March 2020
Daily Blog NO.103.
When it comes to being frightened of something our bodies can react in so many different ways.
We have in our minds a fantasy that you long to transfer into reality but we are frightened that if we do it may not be the same as in our dreams and thoughts.
To find the perfect person to be that other character in your scenario must be right other wise it will crush the long term imagery that you have yearned for for so long.
PVC, Leatherette, Corsets or Bottoms. What’s your fantasy?
It may be a figure that you have looked up to and you have put them on a pedestal in reality but in your dreams you have wanted to do things to her that you know that she would disagree to.
She’s a figure is of a dominant stature, you would love for her to boss and humiliate you to the point where you actually question your loyalty to yourself.
She manipulates you in a way how she likes things done. She doesn’t care about what you want because all that is important is her needs.
You want to tell her your true feelings but that would ruin the dominant relationship that you have with her.
You have to keep this fantasy with you for as long as you can but the erg is so strong that you cant think of anything else but her.
The one thing that holds you back from bringing your fantasy to reality is…
I will leave you to finish the sentence as every individual has there own fetish fantasy.
if you have a dominant fantasy that you would like to bring to reality contact me and we can converse about it some more.
Tuesday 10th March 2020
Daily Blog NO.101.
Maid service means a totally different thing now a days to what it would of done back in the day.
To find a anyone let alone a mistress that would accommodate any such fetish back then you have to look in a telephone box window.
Its a shame that regular society looks on fetishes as seedy and a back street game as if the vanilla type of person would only open up their mind they would see what they are missing out on.
Husband Maid Kathy
I have only heard of a small percentage of husbands that are allowed to dress up at home from their secret wardrobe full of maids uniforms that have everything sewn on it to look as girlie as they possibley can.
The wifey will go out with the girls and say to him (who she has named him a maids name EG: Lucinda to feel the part and as a code for chores time).
“Right Lucinda, I’m out for a couple of hours. I have wrote your chores down for you and I expect them all to be done by the time I get back. I have left the envelope on the bed with your uniform that I have picked for you today. I will expect you to have lunch ready for me on my arrival. I may bring back my friends and embarrass you but then again i may not. That is for you to worry about in the mean time”.
For many husband Maids that would be very exciting and thrilling but it rarely happens because a vanilla female expects her partner to be the alpha male and to dress up is pathetic in their eyes.
Such a shame as i can imagine that would be a perfect life for him in his fantasy world…
If you would like to be my fantasy husband maid then contact me and we can discuss it further.
Thursday 20th February 2020
Daily Blog Extra
If you see a couple in the street walking along holding hands the natural instinct is to look. To see, in your mind if they are compatible within looks or not, but opposites attract in most cases.
To see 2 friends say “hi” and kiss each other on the cheek is normal but to if they were to embrace one another and connect lips for an intimate full-on kiss then they are bringing public attention to themselves and it is inevitable that people will look.
To be told what to do or be watch is just as fun…
Depending on what your fetish is then people will look more than others. To be part of an audience the atmosphere can get very intimate throughout the room/area. Not by touching each other but by lots of people getting hot under their own collars.
If the performance you are watching whether it be live or online it can be very realistic. This is what makes it more inviting to watch because you can imagine in your mind you being in the male or females place.
Voyeurism can be put into context in a lot of ways. Couples like to be watched in a public place or taking a risk to get caught in a place they shouldn’t be. Inside or out depending on the moment of what they are doing.
If you’re on a night out and you meet someone that likes a 3 way to evolve. One watches while the other 2 play and then you all change places as time goes by. When it comes to a couple that has been together for a long time inviting a 3rd person in can be very risky.
Think about it for a while before doing this as it can break up a good thing instead of helping the matter. If you are single and into Voyeurism, it can be a fun experience as a lot of sexual experiences can be in life…
If your sexuality is urging you to widen your horizons then contact me and I will see what I can do…
Wednesday 19th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.81.
Now I have come across some strange fetishes but this on is mighty weird. I don’t know anyone that likes being cold from this wintery weather we are having but to be cold on purpose is another level altogether.
Sometimes you have to adapt if your in that climate for some reason but to be cold on purpose is a fetish on its own.
Wrapped Up Warm
I had a client contact me a while ago and he asked to be taken to a muddy park on a rainy day (which is quite easy at this time of year) and make him walk across the grass so he unintentionally but intentionally slips over and gets muddy and wet and mainly cold.
Although the medical experts say that it is good for the body if you have injuries such as joint arthritis etc as it helps the blood flow around that area. Throughout my research, for this topic, I have a conclusion that it doesn’t seem long term beneficial but only for extra energy after the cryotherapy has been completed for 3 minutes.
From reading the title of the treatment, I think after being in the -264 degree freeze chamber for 1 minute I would be crying also…
So if you would like a Psychrophilia session contact me and I will sure to arrange it for you.
Monday 17th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.79.
What is the attraction of doing things in the public eye? When we are carrying on with our regular lives and something happens that makes people that we don’t know stop and stare the adrenaline rush hits our nervous system in such a way that to certain individuals is a sexual excitement rush.
To be humiliated in the middle of a busy shopping area or crowded pub is the most popular choice because you are guaranteed lots of onlookers. Even though it may be staged the best way of getting an instant reaction is acting it out as if it was performed without being forced to do it.
Exhibitionism can be recognized in many ways but you do have to be careful what you do and where you do it to save getting arrested for indecent exposure if you know what I mean.
It can be as innocent as just having a heated conversation with a friend or partner to get your sexual fix or the endorphin rush or as risky as having intercourse in a very public place. As I mentioned before be careful about this one as exposing sexual parts can cause you to offend onlookers or even get the authorities involved…
If you are into the topic of this daily blog then contact me and we can converse more on the subject. I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…
Friday 14th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.76.
We are all born with a certain amount of hair all over our bodies. Then as we get older it grows to what our bodies require it to.
A lot of the time women are battling their body hair as the media says females should be hair free and smooth…but who makes this ruling?
A few years ago Julia Roberts gave up shave, waxing or whatever she did to her armpits and wore a red sleeveless dress to the Notting Hill Premier opening in 1999.
She is mostly known for her acting career but also this moment in history. I typed into google, actress with hairy armpits and Julia Roberts was first on the list.
A hairy bottom on a sissy is not acceptable to the male eye
Why is society so against hairy females? It is a very natural thing that happens to us all so why do a good percentage of us dislike it on a woman and in general.
I’m a hairdresser (if you hadn’t realized already lol) I love controlling, styling and manipulating it on the head but I am not a fan of it on my body.
I will in the winter grow it a bit when it gets to a certain length it feels unclean (even though I shower 1-2 times a day) to be clear of it completely feels much more hygenic.
This is why I say to a good majority of my clients. Male grooming is a common thing these days. To be completely waxed/shaved or partially waxed/shaved is up to the individual.
Say example you drop something that you’re eating on your chest hair if you are sitting there shirtless or shirt open. To clean up a substance is much harder to do in a hairy area than a trimmed or hair-free area.
A hairy chest is acceptable if you like that sort of thing
Also the same in your manly area. Another reason also if you are looking to extend length (individual personal preference only) then trimming back the bush adds instant length.
Being that this is valentines day I should have mentioned this a couple of blogs ago so you be ready to woo your partner/date with a couple of extra inches (even though you had that hidden away in the bush that you were keeping for many years lol).
It is not down to me to say what you should and shouldn’t do but anyone that goes commando will understand that catching your pubic hair in a zipper can be very eye-watering painful (unlike the film ‘Something about Mary’, scrotum skin caught in the zipper) hilarious film but even I cringed at that moment and I don’t have a scrotum (well I didn’t the last time I looked lol)
So although hair is there for a reason (to keep germs out of orifices) personal preference is always a must to feel comfortable with yourself.
If you are requiring a body grooming session contact me and we can converse more on the topic.
I will look forward to hearing from all you neanderthal men or very hairy women lol
Tuesday11th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.73.
Why when there are so many nice flavors in the world that we choose to taste our on bodily liquids?
Is it because it’s forbidden in normal society or is it because we do it because we can. It’s because it’s our own and we can do what we wish with it.
So then why is it we want to taste other peoples. Total strangers that we have never met before. Who we have to trust that they are safe and clean but in the heat of the moment for some of us that goes out of our minds till after the act has been performed.
Playtimes have come along way since the year dot when everyone was doing the natural thing and making babies but nowadays we all want to see who can get the biggest butt plug in the smallest hole and cross-dressing to the opposite sex and do anything and everything that anyone can think of.
To many people tasting anything that comes from themselves or anyone else would make them instantly gag. Then there are some that would consume anything you put in front of them.
If you are controlled by a mistress then you as the client put your trust in her to abide by your rules that set out at the beginning of your journey together.
Anyone that she chooses to bring into the arrangement then she should make sure that she is confident that they are clean of anything unwelcome.
It still doesn’t answer the question of this blog… I don’t think there is an answer that is right or wrong.
We are all different and like different things, tastes, etc so as I mentioned previously every answer is correct in your own way…
I will look forward to your inquiries on this topic from all those that have strong stomachs…
Wednesday 5th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.67.
When you decide to take a rule of celibacy to yourself, is it the same thing as chastity?
When you have been active for the past younger years it becomes a way of life that you know no different. Just like when you learn to speak.
If you are brought up in England then you are taught English or if you are brought up in Italy for example then your taught to speak Italian.
Until you are introduced into a different way of thinking you know no different.
Chastity can be performed in many ways to the individual needs
Sex is not the be-all and end-all to everything. Its what you choose to be the priority of your daily routine.
Chastity is something that can be physically as well as mentally controlling but can also be associated with celibacy.
It’s all in the mind for it to work. Train your mind to go without it. Just like going without chocolate, it’s possible.
If you give the control of your sexual ways to another person you must stay loyal to them for as long as they say.
If you break that rule you then you will feel that you have betrayed your controller. Normally when you climax it a great euphoric feeling of a release that will make you happy.
Trying to keep what you have done to yourself is not good because you will feel a burden of guilt from that moment onwards.
So think before touching the forbidden place. As time can not be turned back to right the wrong that you have just done.
If you feel you would like some control in your life then contact me and we can converse further about the matter.
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Saturday 1st February 2020
Daily Blog NO.63.
Disclaimer:
I am very sorry to all the nice, well mannered and respectful clients I already have who will read this but this needs to be addressed as its getting out of hand.
My website and profiles that I advertise on have the top priority information that you need to know at the beginning of all adverts.
So why ask the questions when the information is clearly there in front of your eyes.
I recently have been getting a lot of response to my blogs (which is great) from all types of people (i am unable to call them clients as they are not worthy of such a title) and unfortunately, they have been very unsavoury indeed (i have to take the rough with the smooth, I understand that).
They have been asking for services that everyone else offers (including personal services which is absolutely clear that I do not offer) and expecting me to perform them the way everyone else does…I don’t.
I perform them the unique Mistress Lucy way that I am comfortable with.
I like to have a unique twist to everything I do in my sessions. I do not take my clothes off in any way shape or form. Clients are more likely to ask me to dress up in certain outfits which will give the ambience of the role-play a better flow.
- If you think that facesitting is oral…think again, it’s not.
Do I Look Like A Febble Little Female?
- If you think sploshing is food sex and groping each other…think again, it’s not.
- If you think that toilet training is receiving directly from me and I expose my body parts to you…think again, it’s not.
- If you would like to see me wearing stockings…you can but you can only see between my knee and my foot as I will not raise my skirt for anyone.
- If you would like to see me in a basque…you may see me in a corset (over the top clothing as a basque is known as underwear) with a skirt or trousers but not a corset only.
Basically, if you want to see a mistress walk around scantily clad then DO NOT contact me as I am not the mistress for you.
A modern-day mistress will be willing to do anything clothed or unclothed. An old schoolmistress requires respect and admiration and will never undress or show her lady parts in any nature to anyone.
She is a lady to be put on a pedal stool that you look up to and worship in the manner she is used to.
So do not take my nice naturally friendly manner for a soft touch. I will not have anyone try to pull the wool over my eyes.
Just as you think you have one over on me I will, out of the blue come back with such an unexpected response your regret you ever thought of me as a silly little fragile female.
I have been in this business for long enough to know how to handle every type of client, greeting and response.
I have developed very thick skin over the years so nothing will offend or upset me. You are more than likely going to get offended or upset more than me.
Your choice… you’ve been warned.
Do not forget what I have told you as if you do disrespect me in any way you will lose out on ever meeting me or get severally punished for your bad manners without you knowing it.
So when looking at the content of my online whereabouts, think before contacting me.
Take into consideration these points:
- Are you in my prefered age category?
- Be respectful in the manner that you greet and converse with me. I am not your babe, darling or hun. Its Mistress or Lucy depending on the reason you are contacting me.
- Think about what you would like to experience when or if you are allowed to visit me.
So hopefully this blog has helped all those disrespectful young boys or older guys that are old enough to know better.
I will carry on blocking anyone that goes against my rules. I am comfortable with the number of regular clients I have so don’t think that I need to take every client that contacts me.
I only agree to well mannered and respectful clients to visit me at my home.
So if you are in the category of well mannered and respectful gents that are over the age of 35 years old then I will be happy for you to contact me.
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