Daily Blog Extra
If you require me to be the topic of your project or to join other like-minded individuals in photography or video shoots then I will accept but only with my rules.
A Powerful Uniform For A Powerful Mistress
1. I DO NOT perform any sexual activities apart from hand relief or genital play. That is giving and NEVER receiving (just so you understand).
2. I am clothed at all times. In whatever outfit that I agree to be in. (not lingerie, ONLY full outfits)
3. If you are requesting that I travel it is classed as an outcall tribute fee and all travel expenses will be paid extra to my advertised rate.
A Stern PVC Look That Works Well
4. If you are requesting to come to my studio to have the photography or video shoot to take place there will be a £300 charge on top of the incall tribute rate.
5. I DO NOT collaborate in any way when it comes to me being the subject. I have been stitched over (as some would like to title it) a few times in my inexperienced days and it will not happen again.
These rules are guidelines for your request. All depending on what you want and whether you want rights to the footage that you take is dependant on the end total charge.
I am not an escort who is doing this for a cheap thrill and extra money. I am an experienced mistress that my time costs and if you require my time and fetish modeling experience then you will have to pay for it.
So contact me after you have looked at my tribute rates on the contact page and on that page, there is a contact form you can email me your request.
I will look forward to hearing from you…
Wednesday 8th January 2020
Daily Blog Extra
When having a once in a lifetime moment we all like to take photos to remember it from. So to all you Sisy maids and kinksters that love to wear women’s clothes to look better than ever, why not have a photo shoot.
It will include a full transformation with a natural-looking wig (many to choose from), Makeup and outfits that will make you look unrecognisable.
Kathy, The Shy School Girl
It is always best to let me know your chest, waist and leg measurement together with your footwear size. This is so I can make sure I have everything I need for your experience.
It also includes any photos that you would like or they can be put on my website for you to browse them whenever you want to.
Discreet Photography
I have many backdrops that can set the theme of whatever you wish.
The way I take my photos can be in a discreet way ( partial body shoots) or an open way (meaning your face is on show) but the way you will be made up you won’t have anyone recognise you.
If you have any birthmarks or tattoos you want to be hidden then it can be by clothing or theatrical makeup or camera angle.
Either way, your comfort is my top priority.
Within the time you are here, you can have a session of your choice. Whether it be BDSM or hairdressing etc the choice is yours.
For a 4 hour appointment, It will be a tribute cost of £300. If we go over time do not worry as if we are enjoying ourselves I will not mind spending more time together. Call it a girlie day of pleasure.
So if you are interested please contact me and we can discuss the finer details at our leisure…
Thursday 2nd January 2020
Daily Blog NO.33
Nowadays when it comes to any product you can buy cheap and expensive but is the quality there?
I have developed a new fetish of my own when it comes to wigs. Over the past few months, I have collected around 25 wigs of all different colours textures and styles.
Human hair lace frontal wig which can be coloured, permed and is heat resistant. Set on medium rollers and backcombed into style.
The cheaper wigs without lace are the very first ones that I purchased because of curiosity and when delivered was very disappointed but put it down to experience.
Now they have developed a new type of wig that is a reasonable price but looks expensive. Well, all depends on the wig how you style and dress it.
When i receive any wig through the post i like to wash and condition it. Maybe leave it in a plastic bag with the conditioner on it for a day or so. Some hairpieces if they are bad I have left in the conditioner for 1 week. Wow, what a difference. Much softer and the shine is lovely.
I then will detangle and blowdry it. Human hair wigs are easier to manage but fake hair wigs are more tangled and have to have more care of them.
I then look at the hair and what style it is already to what style I will cut it into.
Fake budget colourful lace frontal wig made to look better than it is
Cutting wigs are different from cutting a human beings hair. For one, the model canvas head I have attached to my office desk is not always the same shape as the wig. So I have to physically put on the wig to guide where the ear tabs need to be and sculpt it around my shape head.
There is a difference in peoples head sizes but our ears are roughly in the same place. So I know I’m cutting them in the right place.
Its amazing how a wig can change a face shape and appearance. Just like make-up that can make you look like another person completely.
I love doing transformations, its so much fun seeing the clients face when I reveal their female persona to them.
As I have always said “Every human being has male and female tendencies in them”.
Human Hair Lace Frontal Wig. Can be bleached, coloured, permed and is heat resistant
So even if a man looks very manly. He will still pass as a female when transformed. As there are a few manly looking women out there.
I don’t mention this to offend in anyway but I’m just stating the truth.
So the conclusion to this blog today is that you don’t have to go over your budget to have a beautiful wig.
I do do a wig transformation service if you have a tired-looking wig and would like it to be made over to look a million dollars (or pounds in our case).
Contact me and we can talk further. I don’t have fixed prices I just cost the job for the individual client. This can be done during a hairdressing fetish appointment.
I will look forward to hearing from you….
Tuesday 24th December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.24.
Well, girls and boys its that time of year to whether you have been good or bad but in Mistress Lucy’s eyes good is being bad in a kinky type of way.
As you have been reading all my Postmas Blogs and have got an insight into how Mistress Lucy’s mind really works.
I am a human being like everyone else but living the Mistress life full time for 10 years changes the way I look at things completely.
May 2011
Emotions for one thing. My heart has become tougher in the way that I don’t hurt easily. Thick-skinned I think the saying goes.
I used to be very sensitive and take a lot of things to heart if someone was to call me nasty names ect
Now I don’t think anything of it. Maybe it’s the change of eating etc that I started 19 months ago.
They say it takes time for anything to happen when change occurs. Finally, my body loves the skin it’s living in.
Shame its taken 47 years but that’s life sometimes.
July 2017
I definitely think that has to be something to think about… ‘Being happy in your own skin’.
It’s like the foundation of a building. If that is not secure enough then the whole house when built is not going to last very long.
It’s the same with life. If you don’t love yourself then no one else will. I am saying that on a happy note because it is perfectly true.
What I am about to talk about is not a lecture, far from it but just my experience and how it has made me feel 100% better.
So even if you do one thing to change yourself for the better then that’s better than not making the effort at all.
So these are the steps I try to abide by to keep me healthy/healthier:
1. Eat A Healthy Food Plan Every Day –
Oct 2018,
I try my best to do this every day but we all waver every now and again. What is satisfactory to one person is not to the next. We are all built differently.
I eat 2 meals a day. Overnight oats when I wake at whatever time that is in the morning (as it differs from day to day). Then a hot meal around 5-6 pm as any later plays havoc with my digestion system.
I have learnt what I can eat at different times of the day and night if I get the munchies. If I don’t stick to these rules, I know it for sure.
2. Eliminate Un-Natural Bad Foods –
Febuary 2019
I have stopped all red and white meat from my food plan. Yes, we are carnivores (so the topic of conversation would agree to disagree) but some peoples insides find it hard to digest it more than others.
I have very little fish and diary (maybe cheese every now and again but not often).
I have found my taste buds have got better and every taste is much sweeter and sharper without dairy that was coating my tongue and masking the true flavours.
I am more plant-based than I have ever been in my life. I get a lot of my vitamins from fruit salad and vegetables.
I do not have a cooker or microwave. The only electrical appliances I have in my kitchen are a kettle, blender, fridge and a washing machine.
I have soya juice (I call it juice because it’s not milk as we all recognise it to be) instead of milk on my porridge (I’ve tried water but I have to put extra flavour in with it eg: sugar etc and I don’t like the taste).
April 2019
I cut up 1 x mango, 1 x banana and squeeze 4 x oranges and put it all in the flask blender. Pure natural juice to keep me going throughout the day, yummy natural sugar.
I have peppermint tea as a hot drink although it’s nice hot. warm or cold and water when I feel like it.
My downfall is sugar in my peppermint tea which I know its wrong but it’s nice. I don’t have many sins in food and that’s one of them.
If I fancy a naughty treat I don’t deny myself of it but I don’t need much of it as I did before.
3. Cut Out All Pills And Potions – (only if they are hindering you)
May 2019
I say I did this is because I was on the pill for 15 years or more. The reason I started taking it (skin issues and contraception) isn’t the reason why I was taking it now. My skin is clear from eating natural products and I am celibate by choice.
Being an old-school mistress does affect your mindset when it comes to an active lifestyle.
So I decided it was hindering my lifestyle (unwanted chemicals) more than benefiting it. I stopped it cold turkey as they say.
I didn’t have any side effects like some women do (dry skin, tiredness, depressed). Within 1 month I notice some amazing bonuses to my whole being.
No mood swings and emotional ups and downs (not that there were many but I had to train myself to control them when they occurred).
Ladies problems were a breeze but you don’t need to know about that.
Fewer migraines (I did suffer with them on a regular basis, that would knock me for six when they did occur) and a totally chemical-free lifestyle.
4. Exercise – (is not my strong point but I’m working on it)
September 2019
Yes, it is best to do as much exercise as your happy with but I cut it out completely when I started this change. Basically to see how I would feel and what it would do to my mind.
I used to be a gym bunny years ago. So going from every day to not at all was a big leap for me. Over time I did miss it but my lifestyle was busy so I didn’t miss it in terms of I need to fit it in.
The days would go by so quickly and before I knew it I was clearing up my workspace and getting ready to sit down for my 2nd meal of the day.
As in myself, I feel that I need to do something for a feel-good factor but not for a major exercise routine that’s going to change my shape completely.
As I say I’m happy in my own skin the way I am.
Over time it may change my shape a bit but that will be without putting major effort into it. Whos to know when and if I have the time my mind may change direction.
5.Meditation and crystals –
18th December 2019
Now don’t worry, I’m not going into this topic too deeply as I know its not everyone’s cup of tea.
I’ve only mentioned this because it has helped me in my personal and appointments life a great deal.
To relax and know how to relax in the art of meditation is a must. This has helped me immensely.
I am no reiki therapist or spiritualist but the advice I have been given on this topic has changed my way of thinking a lot.
These 5 rules I have tried to stand by have as I say changed my life in such a short amount of time.
This is why I have mentioned that loving yourself is so very important. We only have only life so don’t waste it.
Conclusion Of My Life-Changing Journey…
20th December 2019
Throughout this part of my life, yes I may not be as toned and trim as I was when I was full-on at the gym but I feel happier and healthier in myself more than I have ever been.
If you want to change then do it for yourself and no one else. Your the only one that can make that change
If you would like to know more about turning you’re life around and loving yourself the right way then contact me and we can converse more.
If not then no worries and thank you for taking the time to read and hopefully enjoy this Christmas Eve Postmas Blog and maybe your find another topic to contact me about.
Monday 23rd December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.23.
As I sit here in my office at home with my array of Christmas goodies on my side plate and my vegan oat coffee I look over my emails and come across this particular one which basically asks ‘How serious are you about your career in Mistressing?’
I was a little shocked by this question as I was briefing over my emails, not fully taking anything in seriously as they were mostly junk mail from companies trying to sell me something.
Festive Treats
So had to double back on the email and read it through again.
They wanted to know how I can take it seriously as its pathetic how men dress as women etc… “Oh dear,” I said to myself as I could see I would need to blog about this topic to put things straight with anyone else that thought this.
So just to clear this up once and for all so everyone knows what I am all about.
I am a down to earth person that doesn’t take any crap from no one but on the other hand, I am trustworthy and never judge a human being whatever their colour, creed, age or appearance.
Now if you are disrespectful to me in a very disrespectful way then that’s a different matter. My punishment to you will be personal because you have chosen it to be that way, not me.
If a guy has a fetish of dressing in silky knickers and stockings or wants to have a full transformation I will be very serious and embrace his fetish the way he requests.
Transformation Fun
Unlike some Mistresses who will take your money, titivate with you and then send you on your way on the dot when your time is up.
I am completely different…As I could make a lot more money than I do but then I would then be in the category of a conveyor belt mistress, which I definitely am not.
I concentrate on quality over quantity. I prefer to get to know you first then I am able to give you much more of a customized service.
Sorry for sounding so formal but this is the only way I know how to explain this to you without sounding shabby if you know what I mean.
I have taken many on journeys of transformations in many different fetishes. Doesn’t matter to me how mild or extreme you are, you are all welcome.
I do like to stick to one ruling though and that is my age preference of over 35 years old.
I Couldn’t Be Any More Serious About My Career If I Tried…..
The reason being is that younger guys in my experience don’t take the fetish world seriously. To them, if they are paying for a service it has to include a partially naked or naked mistress that will perform personal services with them or to them during the time that they have booked.
I am not that type of Mistress. I turn away at least 3-4 or more phone calls or texts a day because of this.
For the amount of polite and pleasant potential and regular clients I receive, overrules the young pathetic inquiries.
As we say in the industry “It comes with the job” which is very true…
If you would like to a customized journey with a genuine, non-judgemental and down to earth mistress then i would love for you to contact me in your own convenient time.
If it is out of my hours then please email me and I will pick up my correspondence at the nearest possible time.
Saturday 14th December 2019
Postmas NO.14.
Good morning everyone,
This is a bit of a different blog today as I’m a day behind even though this blog is dated yesterday.
Sorry, I did not update my blog when I had decided to pack up from upholstering my BDSM furniture last night/this morning but it was gone 2 am and I was very tired.
My brain has to be in blog mode to produce an interesting blog and when Mistress Lucy has a tired mind is not an interesting mind.
I started at 12noon and (still not quite finished now) worked on it until the early hours of the morning. I’m a perfectionist (to best of my ability), that’s why it takes me so long and also upholstering, is not my profession.
So for those who have been following my blogs even before December, your know that I have been looking for a carpenter to make me a spanking bench of which I was hoping for a customized one so that I could have it just the way I want it.
Time after time people who were so-called carpenters would contact me and say “Yes sure I can do that for you” and in the end fail to produce.
I think I had roughly 8 carpenters that were complete fails.
In business, if you do a good job then your client ( hence myself) will advertise your good name and then you will get more work.
People don’t seem to think this way. Still, I didn’t get exactly what I have wanted but it will look just as good and will do the job that I want very well.
One day I was looking on eBay at some other things and came across this advertisement for a carpenters bench. Very chunky and not really what I was looking for, so dismissed it.
As a few days passed I was still looking for a bench but everything looked commercialized.
Anyone that knows me knows that I am not commercialized and like to be uniquely different.
Kneeling Stool/Coffee Table
I went through my checklist of what I was expecting my ideal bench to perform for me and funny enough this bench ticked all my boxes.
The things I wanted for my bench were the following:
- To be able to take any size and weight of person I have for any appointment.
- So that I have one piece of furniture to accommodate my BDSM and Massage clients.
- If I wanted to have attachments to it I could EG: Gyno supports, Stocks, St Andrews Cross (but my version), etc…
- If I wanted to have a cage underneath the table part then I could.
When having a piece of furniture made out of wood it is very versatile to do as I please with it.
Although metal is great and it really looks the part all I can do is hang things off of it and attach this to it (as I do not have welding skills) but I feel that it is not as sturdy as a solid wood frame.
To have anything like A St Andrews Cross or Stocks etc attached with wood I can attach with sturdy bolts and take off if I require.
I do like to put my own twist on things on many occasions.
So as you can see from the images I have attached to this blog the end result I like Is unique but clean cut.
Sometimes when having so much equipment it is difficult to be clean-cut in the design of my entertainment room but in my furniture, I will be this way.
Having many pieces of furniture will clutter up the floor space. Being compact will give more space to move around in.
I use my entertainment room as a photographic studio also. With backdrops for the male to female transformational photos as well as other things.
So I hope you enjoyed this update and when I have received the next delivery of spray glue I can start on the larger bench.
As the bench I did yesterday is the kneeling stool to the spanking part of the bench.
Big and bulky is the best type of multi-use furniture so it can take anything I want to do on it.
So do contact me and we can converse more. I will be looking forward to receiving your inquiries on any service that I offer……
The First Day of December Festivities
Sunday 1st December 2019……
Postmas No.1.
To many of you, December has come around far too quick this year, not unlike every year.
I can remember feeling the hot rays of the 25th July when it was 36 degrees without any breeze at 2:30pm here in Northampton and all I could think about was a nice cold drink to cool me down. Now all I want is hot soup to warm me up.
This year I am feeling different about December and Christmas, in a good way. I fancied a real tree this year. I wasn’t sure of the type as there are so many to choose from but Tescos had a good range.
I bought it last night to be ready for the start of December to spread the Christmas spirit. Be it a small tree, it is perfect for what I want and where I would like to put it.
I have always stayed with an artificial Christmas tree before but a fresh tree always gives that natural festive vibe and as I am very much into the natural plant way of living I thought it would be very appropriate.
So this December I am going to try to post on my website every day or as much as I possibly can so I can spread the festivities the way I know how to.
Like the youtube community who vlog every day in December, they call it ‘vlogmas’. So I will call my posts in December postmas.
So please do keep an eye open and look out for daily posts. You never know it might become a routine for me. Heres hoping……
As a female (and I am not like any other female you may know) I do like to buy clothes. I have accumulated a few that are not needed due to trimming down my physique and dropping a couple of dress sizes but also minimalising my wardrobe to things I do not wear any more.
So if any of you fetishists would like any of my scented or unscented items then please do contact me and we can discuss further on the topic.
Look forward to hearing from you.
When a client finds a mistress that he adores it is very rare indeed. It takes a lot of searching and sometimes many appointments to find that connection. I had a call from a particular admirer one day last year. He sounded a very polite gentleman and very courteous in his conversation. I did not need to ask his age and nationality as I could tell from his accent and the way he conversed with me.
I have learnt over the years to understand the different types of clients that contact me and people I would not class as a client as they are clearly requesting what I do not and will not entertain.
I have seen Mr Man (as I will call him to hide his identity) several times now and on every occasion that we have met he has kept up with the polite admiration that he first contacted me with.
I never ask or demand for tribute gifts but each time he has visited me he has never come empty handed. Whether it be the finest Leather gloves, boots or lunch it has always been a pleasant surprise.
He always first asks what I would like as a gift. As I am polite I guide him to my amazon wish list I have which has various gifts of different prices (as I don’t know what budget anyone has that is what I always do).
A lady always like to be treat with appreciation and Mr Man definitely does that.
I have many admirers that do the same thing but Mr Man is definitely a gentleman in his own right.
So if you want to stay in my good books get you thinking caps on………..
When mobile phones first came out a lot of people thought that it wasn’t for them. Now in the year 2019 it is an essential item for everyone from teenager to adult to have one.
If you are like me and carry your mobile phone around with you everywhere you go then when it goes wrong OMG it seems like the end of the world.
I was advised to have a work and a personal phone a few months ago. I’m so glad I took my accountants advice.
I have had Apple devices for about 10 years now as the contracts have always been 24 months long. I joined the apple industry when iPhone 5 was in fashion. So that shows you how long I have been a iPhone fan.
Unfortunately (as my grandmother use to say) “they don’t make things like they used to” and I agree as truthfully they don’t.
My iPhone 7 plus has gone wrong 3 times in this past contract which finishes in august 2019. It has forced me to make the descion to finish with iPhone and change over to android.
I took out a huawei pro 20 4 months ago because the sales man was so convincing but I’m glad I did. The reviews blow Apple iPhone out of the water.
So all I can say to Apple is ‘be careful as there are some small companies out there stepping up there mark to make bigger and better products than you’.
So to recap on this informative blog…..I have a new number which is 07944309638. I will be changing it to be my only contact number very soon but until then I can receive calls and texts on both numbers.
For all you WhatsApp users I can only have this on my new number.
So look forward to receiving all your enquiries on all those kinky niches you have in mind.