Monday 20th December 2021
Blog No.158/ Blogmas No.20
December 2021
Everyone that has a beating heart has the means to accommodate this fetish. We all have different colours of it and it has a valued purpose to every one of us. Some of us lose it through illness, stress, or skin complaint, and others get rid of it because they hate it.
Have You Realized What iI Is Yet?
Yes, you guessed it… Body Hair. Hair is Loved in so many different ways that it can cause all sort of emotions in individuals.
What Type Of Hair?
Hair in general comes in so many different forms that when on different parts of the body it sets off many emotions. Hair can be on the head, facial hair (men or women), Body hair (as in all over the body in a lite form on women or men) forearm hair armpit hair, pubic hair leg hair, toe hair. It doesn’t matter where the hair is there will always be someone somewhere that will love your hair.
Why Does It Arouse Us?
Attraction is in the eye of the beholder. It all steams done to how we were brought up as a child. If you were used to seeing your family members with natural hair then you will accept hair in all its integrity. If your mother was again hair on women or untidy hair on men then you will grow up absorbing these ways.
Hair around the world…
In many parts of the world, the cultures are all for nature’s way regarding body har on both sexes. They may not have the means to shave or wax and so the hair grows freely. So women may grow better chest hair or beards than men or vice versa but even still it is accepted.
Why Do We Have Body Hair?
I Don’t Have Much Hair Here (I’ve been tweezering for 20 years)
Hair is strategically placed on our bodies when the animal was created in the year dot. Animals over time have kept their hair but as the human being has evolved we have naturally reduced the amount of hair to be acceptable in many ways. Some of the individuals of the female species have chosen to remove their armpit, pubic, and leg hair to be more attractive to the opposite sex…but is that proven to be attractive to the opposite sex? That is the question. The real reason hair is placed on our body is to protect certain areas as a hygiene barrier.
Trichophilia Fantasy…
Overtime man has developed a fascination for the female hair pattern on various parts of her anatomy. The attraction is down to individual fantasy. Whether it is above board and in a visual type of way. By stroking the hair on her head or is it in a sexual desire to taste or feel the hair on his face. Either way, he has a Trichophilia fetish and he has it bad.
Hair Fascination Can Be Addictive…
Depending on what type of hair fetish you have it can control your imagination to an extent that you look at everyone you meet in your everyday life. You may have been attracted to your partner because of the hairstyle or body hair. Keeping your fetish alive can be testing at times especially if your partner has had a change of heart and decided to shave or cut it off to remodel her/himself. At that point you need to look elsewhere to get your fix.
Mistress Lucy’s Hair…
I Became A Princess For Day…So Not The Real Me…
Over the years I have always kept my hairstyles natural or coloured, short or shaven. As I have grown older I have found that a shaved style does not suit me as well as when I was slim and younger. So i am going into phase 2 of my career and I am growing it longer. How long is a different matter, I’m not sure.
My subs and slaves seem to be a fan of the longer look with all the creations of my wigs and hairpieces that i put together in my many alter egos.
Shall Mistress Grow her hair…or not?
I did manage to grow my hair before I came to Northampton back in 1999. I grew it for my wedding. I did not feel like me. As I felt it had to be in a long hairstyle for the style of the dress. I loved the dress, off-the-shoulder, big long skirt with a bustle at the bottom of the spine. Absolutely beautiful. Size 8/10 I managed to get down to (but that was through stress. I wanted the day but
My Traveling Days – Blonde Didn’t Last For Long (bleach not healthy for my hair)
I was not happy with the guy. That’s another story for another time). Made from brush silk. When I think back I wish I had had it the way I wanted it but I did not have the persona that I have now. A lot has changed since then. It did not last. Hence the move to Northampton in the year 2000.
So I would like to grow my hair again but without hair colour. I think being able to set it and put it up in all different ways would be fun. I also could get my hairdressing kinksters to have a better time in session than they are already. I could be their model by washing, blowdrying, setting, perming ( water as a makeshift perm lotion and neutralizer) Colouring ( using conditioner as a makeshift colour). I have hair long enough to do this now.
Trichophilia appointments…
If you have a hair fetish of any kind (only head and body hair, NOT pubic hair) then CONTACT ME and we can discuss your requirements.
Sunday 19th December 2021
Blog No.157/ Blogmas No.19
Tonight I am going to enjoy this fetish as I am this fetish. It is part of what I do and i enjoy doing it. To accept becoming a sadist Mistress you have to know the different levels of pain.
What is Pain?…
So…What Are You Waiting For?
The definition of pain is totally down to the individual. To one person it can mean getting a tiny splinter and to another, it can mean taking a hard beating at a corporal punishment session.
What do I like about being a sadist?…
The feeling of being in control is what I love about my sessions. Guiding the level of pain at certain times so I can take the sub on a rollercoaster of a journey. Increasing the intensity whether it is electrics, vibration, or touch. The feeling that travels through the subs body is what makes me thrive at that particular time. I don’t plan anything. This is why I am happy that I have got to my level of profession that I can change on the spare of the moment what I do. If I plan a session in my head then the client changes his mind or the body language guides me in a different direction I have no choice but to go that way.
Are You A Masochist Who Is In Search Of A Sadist To Control You Levels Of Pain?
If so CONTACT ME and we can converse and see what type of pain I can inflict on you… Pleasurable pain obviously.
Saturday 18th December 2021
Blog No.156/ Blogmas No.18
Restriction is a small word for such a big fetish. To Anyone that doesn’t know much about it, they would think wrong things about it. If you are really into it then it can be very arousing and erotic if you are in the right frame of mind.
Mental restriction…
I Will Restrict You, Mind, Body, And Soul…
For someone that is not familiar with their mistress, mental restriction is the best way to ease their uncertainty. To tell them to put their hands in a certain position is much more comfortable for their ease so that if they don’t want to continue or feel they need to move their arms ect they can.
Cuffs and Rope…
When they are happier in your presence then cuffs and rope can
Restrictive Hogtied…
be introduced. A connection between the mistress and sub is essential for the session to flow just right when using physical restriction equipment. Depending on the type of cuffs you can have the wrists and ankles immobilized separately or hogtied and have them linked together. This all depends on the mobility of the subs joints. I am all for pleasurable pain that lasts for hours but not pain that they have difficulty with for days after the session has ended.
Suspension restriction…
Now, this is very exciting to use in a session. Again depending on the sub’s mobility and fitness is depending on what position you are able to suspend them in. I have hooks in the ceiling of my dungeon so this is possible. Like Japanese rope art if you suspend the sub in a beautifully decorative way the sub’s limbs will be restricted but they
Nipple Chopsticks May Not Seem Much But Have You Tried Them???
have no cushioning from the rope on their body. So if the sub is inexperienced this could be very uncomfortable for them. The heavier the body the more painful the rope will be on the flesh. Restrictive rope art is much more pleasant on a bench as your body weight will not discomfort you at all.
Smaller Restrictive Equipment…
When a sub needs to be put in restraints it doesn’t only have to be cuffs or rope there are lots of other ways. Cuffs can mean Metal Thumb Cuff, Metal Handcuffs ( police role play), Leather Cuffs, Armbinder, Humbler, Ball Crusher of multiple materials, Testicle Weights, Chastity Devices of all shapes and designs. The list can go on.
Leather Body Bag With Detachable Hood…
Restriction is applied with this body bag. From your neck to feet it has multiple leather strapping to further restrict all movement. If you have an itch then you have to sort it before your incased. To have your full body in restrictive wear it can be very exciting to have your control taken away. To be teased from all angles and not be able to do anything about it can blow your mind. If you have fully given your whole being to your mistress for the session it makes the time
Full Restrictive Leather Body Bag With Detachable Hood
together that bit more intense. Leather has no give in it, unlike faux leather or material. So if you are getting your body bag customized then be sure to add on a few inches in places so it fits you with no sore patches.
Lucy’s Fetish Closet…
If you wish to have one of these leather body bags including a hood yourself CONTACT ME and we can discuss your requirements as they are customized. If you wish to change the design that is possible.
Restriction is For Everyone…
Even if it does not appeal to you there are ways around these things to take part in this but by your rules. I do my session by asking and fully understanding what the client wants first before even walking into the dungeon. Restriction can take place anyway. It does not have to be a BDSM setting. CONTACT ME if you are interested and we can discuss it further.
Friday 17th December 2021
Blog No.155/ Blogmas No.17
Losing All Control Of Your Bodily Functions…
A quiet session for many people would be the worst type of session possible but for some, it is what they desire from a mistress. Not that they can not stand her voice but because the silence takes them deeper into their subspace.
Craving Silence…
To have a voice talking throughout certain times interrupts the journey that the sub is traveling on. To break the silence with words could ruin the session completely.
A Mistress’s Point Of View on Silence…
For a mistress to take a silent session it also helps the intensity for her gradually increase as the minutes pass. It may feel like time is standing still but it also is able to block out the outside world to give the atmosphere your own personal feeling.
Make Your Own Atmosphere…
Being Restricted For A Better Sub Space…
For a sub that is encased in the bondage that his mistress has chosen for him means he can place himself in his mind anywhere he wishes. He could be in a summer’s field on mistress bench with the sungrazing his bare flesh that is exposed. Hearing the birds sing and the breeze flowing over his body. Another option, He could be in a dark and dingy cellar where he is kept hostage. Tied up and bound in BDSM attire for his mistress’s amusement. She will come to him when she wishes.
These scenarios are of the sub’s own choice unless he has discussed them with the mistress before the silence commences. Then she can act accordingly to make whichever scenario feel a lot stronger than the other one.
Short And Sweet But To The Point…
Although this blogmas is short it is to the point.S on that note I will love you and leave you to think about whether a silent session is for you.
Do CONTACT ME if you have any questions and you would like to be introduced to silent sessions.
Take care in all you do, stay safe, and talk soon.
Thursday 16th December 2021
Blog No.154/ Blogmas No.16
This is extreme but persistent offenders will get this punishment…
Today may not be an obvious fetish but many have this fetish on their likes list without them knowing it. The reason is, if you like to have a fetish performed on you regularly and it is of a punishment nature then it becomes a Persistent Punishment. Persistent Punishments are both P’s and today is a P day.
Old School Punishments…
A punishment back in the day use to be something you had to be performed on you by the teacher or if it was a very naughty thing you did then you would be marched off to the Headmistresses office. There you would be given an experience that hopefully would turn you off doing anything naughty again.
Persistent offenders…
Too many boys, a once time extremely hard caning or ruler across the back of the legs was enough to put them off but the odd crazy boy would continuously be the rebel of the class/school and want the punishment as he loved the tingle of the pain during and after what he was given.
Does The Punishments In Your School Years Turn You Into A Pain Needer In Your Older Years?…
Bare Skin Punishment Is Not For The Faint-Hearted…
This is a question that we are all needing the answer to. When I have a punishment client (or any client) I always like to find out why they like the fetish that are so attached to. The therapy side of my career is what fascinates me. To get to know how a machine works you need to know how a machine works. I don’t mean to call all my clients machines but you know what I mean.
Understand What You Do So You Can Enjoy It A Lot More…
As quite a few of my clients say many a time when I ask them about their previous experiences in meeting other mistresses they don’t have a complete connection with them. It’s like they only do it for the money and want the client out as quickly as possible. I’m completely the opposite. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t ask for the name of the mistress and was she any good or not but just a general what they didn’t like and what could have made it better. It helps me with the session and so it will flow better.
Enjoying The Company Your With…
This exactly goes the same for the client as well as the mistress. When I have a client visit me for the first time (I call them clients when I first meet them. Then when I see you have proved to me you are a nice person and my type of client it changes from client to friend/client) I give them the benefit of the doubt. If I get the vib that you are not quite right when you first contact me then I go with my intuition. I have been caught out before and ignored my intuition. I would say it wasn’t unpleasant but it wasn’t pleasant and I had to make the excuse and cut the session short. Yes of cause I blocked him straight away. Sorry, it wasn’t his fault but I didn’t feel the mistress/friendly/chemistry between us if you know what I mean. not everyone gets on with everyone.
When You Have Passed The First Phase…
When you have passed the first phase and you have become a friend/client then I will relax a bit by not seeming frosty or looking like I have a barrier up against you.
The Reason I Have Looked Like I Have Side-Tracked With This Blog…
Anything can be used to perform a punishment…
I have mentioned all that I have because for a persistent punishment fetishist persistently does something wrong is because he wants to keep coming back to that one person. They like the way they pleasantly but kinkily hurt them. If they don’t like the mistress then they won’t come back and life will be boring again until they do find someone they like.
Method To My Madness…
I have worked on my mistress persona for 14 years (the length of time I have been in the industry). To correct my flaws in things I do over the years I have had to understand why I do it and when I do it. I have now realized why I do things the way that I do them. This is why I feel I am at my very best now than I have ever been.
Phases Of Fetishes Through Our Lives…
The persistent offenders who once loved having their detention or whatever the role play will call it to give them maximum enjoyment may have loved a hard caning back in the day by soft mistress. Times have changed in the industry and your taste in punishment. To find a mistress who really is a pure dominant mistress that lives her career 24/7 is hard to come these days. Many are escort mistresses or part-time mistresses who will do anything if you pay them. Then afterward come out of the so-called stern-looking role-play and go back to the ‘yes wifey’ at the kitchen sink. Sorry to say that but a lot of the time it’s true. When the client changes through his life they have to either stay with a mistress who totally understands the phases he is going through (20’s, 30’s, 40’s, etc) or change mistresses and find a new one and start again. What turns you on in your 20’s won’t turn you on in your 50’s.
Why Your Fetishes Change Over The Years…
If you are completely healthy then it may apply to you or it may not. As the years pass your interests change to a point where you become a lot more curious. Sex is not doing it for you and you need to find your inner kinky self and fulfill the ?’s you have next to a lot of your imaginary fantasies that have been kept locked in the kinky part of your brain. It’s been there forever and a day but you have been frightened to unlock it because of who you are with or the particular time in your life is not the right time. So until you meet that right mistress it will not trigger you to unlock it or change your desired fetishes.
I will leave you with that thought…
So if this blog has awakened any thoughts that you have kept locked in your kinky part of your brain CONTACT ME and let’s see if we can arrive at a conclusion that you are happy with or start a journey that will make you a better person to continue your future with…
Wednesday 15th December 2021
Blog No.153/ Blogmas No.15
When you first looked at my social media and saw Oral in the title I bet you thought that I would be talking about the obvious…well your wrong. Oral can be in all sorts of methods What I am going to be talking about is Oral domination/verbal domination.
All Kinds Of Methods…
Therapy With A Silky But Wicked Twist…
When you look at a blog and it speaks of domination that is orally brought you It can be as the mistress is telling you or you answering the mistress’s questions on subjects she wants to know about you.
Therapy…
Many clients contact me because they like the therapy side of the session. It may be a whole session of therapy or partial depending on how the conversation goes. Talking about experiences and what they would like to experience can solve many problems that you may not know that is taking part in your everyday life.
To Bring It To Reality Or Not...
I have had bookings where the client requests to talk about their fantasy as if he would like to bring it to reality but in reality, he doesn’t want to. Its the fact that he is frightened that it will not meet his expectations. If the fantasy has been just that for a long time it’s better to just talk about it or keep it to yourself and then if you want to change it around eg: a male leading role instead of a female leading role hen that is your prerogative. If it doesn’t work out in the way you expecting then you only have yourself to blame.
To Talk Your Arousal to Boiling Point…
I Can Speak To You Without Talking…
Hearing certain words being put together by a person that you are attracted to in whichever way you are can be part of the turn-on process. She may have a way of pronouncing sexual words or encouragement that just make the hairs on the back of your neck stand on end. Maybe she has a way of making a plain and maybe boring story sound as if you are the one it’s about. either way, you can not stay away. a phone call, video call, or going to visit her, you need to hear her soft voice dominate your whole body.
A strategy has occurred in your life without you realizing it. From the moment arrange to hear her voice again your body goes through an overtaking feeling of excitement that you don’t feel like this with anyone else. You sit and think and ask yourself the question “why her? Why does she rule my world with the silky words that roll off that wicked tongue she has?” You can never answer your question and because of that, you accept that you are bound to her for however long she will have you.
Build up to a very traumatic situation…
So when you have arranged a date and time you then have the seconds, minutes, hours, and days in between to consolidate what and how you will enjoy the time she has spared for you out of her busy schedule.
Life is not so easy after a session…
Careful With Your Choice Of Words…
The come-down after a session lasts for days. You hear nothing but her voice as your imaginary mistress that is with you everywhere you go. A bit like the angel and the devil that you have sitting on your shoulders 24/7. Although she is your angel and devil enticing your good side and naughty bad side at such inappropriate times of your everyday lifestyle.
A Female that intrigues your Curiosity…
“The domination that spills from her mind can only be from years of experience,” you say to yourself as your driving to work, when you should be concentrating on your day ahead of you. The words from her vocabulary entice the male brain cell in a way that takes over his way of thinking to a certain point that after a session he can not think of anything else but her.
Conclusion…
You did not know that the first time you called her that she would real you in on her every word. She took you by surprise because she was so pleasant and so wicked at the same time. Just what you like and you know it.
Contact Me…
So, I dare you to CONTACT ME and let me know your request. Be prepared for temperatures to rise with my silk soft wicked ways.
Take care my sweet and you stay safe or else…
Monday 14th December 2021
Blog No.152/ Blogmas No.14
Now I had trouble finding a fetish for the letter N. I have been getting fans to ask about hairdressing topics that I can blog about so all I could really find was the word Neck. This would also include some hairdressing terminology as in the nape of the neck etc.
The human body Is A Fetish on It Own…
Officer Lucy – Short Back And Tidy Nape
I understand that any part of the human body has a fetish attached to it. Including knees but that’s a K. When I first was aware that the neck became a fetish was when I started in the industry 14 years ago. Things developed on my need for fetish knowledge and so I looked more into it.
The Neck Is So Sensitive…
The neck has so many sensitive and arouse mechanisms in it that there is too many to count. To touch or go anywhere near it and it can set the hormones and endorphins to make amazing feelings rush through your whole body.
The Nape Of The Neck…
The hair on the nape area (back of the head near the neck) if brushed in a certain way can give you a feel-good factor or a really good feel-good factor.
Short and tidy Hair. neat Nape
Some characteristics of hair growth at the nape area can look very interesting to a neck/hair lover. Just the feel of it when they touch the short hairs can set off arousal emotions on them let alone on the person that hair they are touching.
Visually Satisfying…
Too many hair lovers if the nape is not trimmed and neatly visual then they are not interested in that particular person. Everyone has their own preferences. If hair is cut in a short or long style you have to remember it grows. Which is the beauty of it as then we can have a different hairstyle every time if we wish.
Qualified Hairdresser (30 Years)…
If you an interested in the hairdressing fetish then CONTACT ME and we can talk more about your requirements.
Monday 13th December 2021
Blog No.151/ Blogmas No.13
To many, a massage can mean one of two things, a seedy happy ending massage down the local parlor or a regular above board massage in the beauty salon.
Understanding Massage…
Mistress Lucy’s BDSM Massage
Little do people understand about massage that it can be an inner or out-of-body experience if performed by the right therapist. The therapist can be anyone that can do massage to a professional standard. Even if she be a mistress or dominatrix.
Connection Between The Two People Involved…
The connection between the two people involved should have an understanding before the session starts. Boundaries are different for each person. One may require a straight forward massage with no ending and another may be requiring a tantric massage where the sensitivity starts from the first time the therapist will lay her hands on you. You do not want to get the two mixed up for fear of offending the client.
Anyone Can Try Massage…
Anyone can try massaging their partner that they are with but whether they are any good or not, is the question. If you do not enjoy what you are doing then it will show within the movements of your hands. This is one activity, amongst many others that will show your lack of interaction or love of the interaction immediately you lay your hands on the partner/client.
Improve On Your Skills…
Mistress Lucy’s BDSM Massage
To either ask for help or do classes on massage is a definite benefit if you are wanting to impress your loved one. It could become part of your job or what you are doing now if you want it to.
I have definitely found it is a big benefit in the services that I offer. It has taught me how to tell the difference between a soft and heavy-handed touch. If you are requiring a soft and heavy-handed touch laid on your hard-worked body then CONTACT ME and we can discuss your requirements.
Do Not Offend Me Before Reading…
Please read my fetish list before letting me know your requirements as you don’t want to offend me before we have even had any communication.
For those who don’t comprehend what I have just said it means… For all you seedy-minded guys that think it’s a massage with a quickie as an end result, it is not as I DO NOT OFFER PERSONAL SERVICES.
I will look forward to any of the polite and well-mannered gentlemen reading this blogmas.
Saturday 11th December 2021
Blog No.149/ Blogmas No.11
If I was to ask you what fetish would you pick for the letter K, What would you say? I have looked for as many as I can find. I am not going to tell you what the meanings are. That is your homework if you are really interested. Some of them are very normal…normal as can be anyway.
Here are the 7 that I found…
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Katoptronphilia
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Kinesopphilia
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Kleptophilia
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Kleptolagnia
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Klismaphilia
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Knismolagnai
I did find knives being a fetish also but that one I do not play with at all. So which one do you think I choose to blog about for day 11 of blogmas?
Most Interesting…
I found that knismolagnis was the most fascinating. I can not tolerate this done to me. as I am sensitive all over. Yes, you have guessed it it’s Tickling.
Experience…
I have taken tickle torture sessions for years and every one of the bookings has been different.
A Perfect Position for Tickle Torture
The reason I say this is because if I have the same client come back to me for a repeat session because he loved it the last time.
You are not to react the same every time. your sensitivity is ruled by what type of day week or month you have had. If work or home life has been getting to you it can affect how locked in you are to your imagination and fetish subspace at the particular moment.
Important…
At the beginning of every session in front of the client, turn down the sound on my phone to nothing. I do this to hopefully give a sign to my client to do the same thing.
This is because if their phone goes off in the middle of the session it distracts their concentration. I like to give a quality session and when they are distracted it can end the urge to be tickled.
Mistress Lucy’s Technics…
I have many technics to break through the tickle zone in certain areas of the body. Some people aren’t ticklish but the clients that request to have an actual tickle session are and very much so.
I will not go into how I conduct my session but for clients that play hard to get in certain zones, they are the more interesting bookings. I love a challenge.
Are you brave enough to partake?…
So for anyone that is willing to challenge me CONTACT ME and we can converse further
Friday 10th December 2021
Blog No.148/ Blogmas No.10
How time flies when you having fun. Welcome to day 10 of Blogmas. What would you say a fetish is for the letter J? As far as I can think of there isn’t a specific one. Apart from Japanese Rope Art/Torture or a fetish that is a popular one that has a different name to it.
Constable Lucy But Mam To You
What is Judicial Punishment?…
Judicial Corporal Punishment is a little like corporal punishment but ordered by the law. It was a law in many countries at one point but not so much now.
It can be found to continue in British colonies and Muslim-majority states. I will not go into which actual countries as that could be a controversial topic.
Fantasy / RolePlay…
These shoes may be unappealing but they hold the authority to put you in your place…