Friday 3rd December 2021
Blog No.141/ Blogmas No.3
Corporal Punishment sounds quite aggressive and yes it is when it is given in the way it should be many years ago. These days it is very much a niche that people enjoy when it is given within their pain thresh hold limitations.
Trust In Your Mistress/Master…
Nov 2021 – Restraints may need to be used to give administer the punishment you deserve
Having trust in the person that is administering the CP is very much a top priority.
If a Mistress/Master is dishing out the punishment they need to know what your pain level is.
The Mistress/Master has to remember that you have come to them for pleasure (even if it is painful).
If they don’t administer the correct level that you are happy with you will not come back.
So to show genuine skills as a Mistress/Master it is vital so that they are respected in the highest form.
Surroundings…
Having the right surroundings is not always necessary depending on the scenario that is needed to take you to your fantasy/subspace.
Hoods and Masks…
Sometimes you may prefer to be hooded or masked for visual deprivation. So the surroundings do not matter but it helps to intensify the atmosphere of what you may observe before you are hooded.
Oct 2021 – Humiliation can be part of punishment as well
Emotions…
The only emotions that you will feel are hearing and adrenaline.
The sounds of the Mistress/Master going through their cupboards to see what to use for your next
stage of punishment will raise their temperature to a level that will heat your entire body.
Adrenaline is a very arousing feeling. Waiting in anticipation of what painful or pleasurable thing you will next encounter.
Keeping you on your toes in your imagination is most important. If the intensity cools off this could ruin or even stop the whole experience.
Contact me…
So if you are a lover of Corporal Punishment that would be administered by a highly skilled mistress contact me and we can talk further about your requirements.
Take care in all you do, stay safe, and talk soon in the next blog.
Thursday 2nd December 2021
Blog No.140/ Blogmas No.2
Disclaimer: Sorry, this is a plain blog but I did try to find a non-risky photo for this fetish but unfortunately couldn’t. As my website is not guarded by a login page have to be careful what content I put on here.
Hello again sweetie, Day 2 of blogmas already. This is how fast the days are going by.
So today is B is for Bisexual. For many years to be who you really want to be was not welcomed in many parts of the world. Then a lot of strong-minded people stood up for what they truly wanted. Now from the way all genders are accepted we all can express ourselves fully to the way we are happy with.
Now, this doesn’t mean to say we all have to let everyone know and shout it to the world. Keeping it as a private interest or seeing someone that they feel comfortable with every now and again is still ok. Whatever you feel comfortable with is fine.
There is no wrong way and right way to do things. You live your life the way you want to. We are all individual human beings and have our own opinions of what is good and bad and what to say yes and to say no to.
The definition of bisexual means that you have a fascination with both sexes. Everyone’s day job sometimes does not allow them to voice their opinion on this. If you wear what you want under your office suit then no one knows any different.
Whatever makes you happy is the right thing to do. As I always mention ‘we only have one life, so don’t waste it’.
Take care in all you do and stay safe. Talk soon in the next blogmas.
Wednesday 1st December 2021
Blog No.140/Blogmas No.1a
When the month of December approaches us, some of us love the idea but some are totally off the idea of Crimbo joys. For the past couple of years, we have been forced to compromise on our love of Christmas because of social distancing and not being able to see our loved ones when we want to.
Alternative Christmas 2020
I have had a different outlook on Christmas the past couple of years and decided to have an alternative Christmas look to my decorations. I tried it the first year and failed unsuccessfully as it looked like a 2-year-old painting of a Christmas tree.
Then last year I decided to have a 7ft slim artificial tree and dress it in fetish/BDSM items. It worked well but I wanted to do something different again this year.
So I looked on Pinterest (as you do for ideas) to what I could make for myself. So this year I decided to have a wall tree.
Now the cats were very well behaved last year. None of them tried to climb to the top but Tommy did try his best to tap a bauble every now and again when I wasn’t looking. Little bugar lol.
So having a wall tree would be like a picture on the wall but made out of chains. I tried red rope but when the lights went on it just didn’t look right.
Alternative Christmas Tree 2021
After 3 attempts I ended up with what you see in the photo. I am quite pleased with it. It looks better with the lights on than off but I can’t have both ways with the chain effect.
I may see if green matte tinsel will make it look any better but i don’t want to cover or drown out the look of the chain.
For those who will be accepted for an appointment this month, you will see it in person but for now, you can admire it from afar.
My decorations will be mild and minimal. I planning on re-decorating the hallway (when I have time) so maybe next year it will be a decorated Christmas just the way I would have always dreamt of.
The problem with me is that there is never enough time in the day for all the things I have to do. Hay ho I will get them done eventually.
Take care in all you sweetie, stay safe and talk in the next blogmas
Wednesday 1st December 2021
Blog No.139/ Blogmas No.1
When it comes to most fetishes you would know A is for anal. That is the most common one. I have been doing some homework on bizarre and strange fetishes and if I am stuck on a letter i will just look for the Latin name for a common fetish.
A is For Andromimetophilia…
Plain and to the point…
This is when you are turned on for women dressed in men’s clothing. There is a lot of women’s clothing that are cut like men’s clothes these days. Sometimes it is the case that a female will feel much more comfortable in a man’s style than a female design.
Some guys like the fact that a woman can look good in both styles as this shows that she is open-minded in many ones than one.
Another reason could be that he doesn’t want to accept that he likes guys and to get around this he likes to dress a female up to impersonate a guy. Then he doesn’t have to feel he should explain his sexuality.
Judgemental…
Nobody has to feel that they will be judged when around me. You are who you are and if you like the same sex as you are then hunki dori. It’s the straight-laced people that are missing out.
Prudence…
In many cases, the straight-laced people are jealous of the proud people because they haven’t got the guts to show their real selves to the world.
My Motto…
My motto is (well one of them) ‘we only have one life, so don’t waste it.’ So don’t and be happy in all you do and if you arent then you are the only one that can change it…
Wednesday 1st December 2021
Blog No.138
Well, what another year it has been, and hasn’t it passed quickly. I thought I would pop on here and update you on all the goings-on of Mistress Lucy. Don’t worry I am not going to bore you with the website news that can be for another blog. 
The reason I am blogging for you today is that I am going to a month of Christmas Blogmas. This means that I am going to do a blog a day for December.
Christmas Attire…
I am a mistress that does like a bright colour every now and again. So as it is the Christmas season as of today I thought I would be tasteful and bring out the scarlet red corset and glasses. I wish I had waited to do these photos until I had my nails done (sparkly red) but I have to take photos when I’m in the right mood and Monday was that time.
A To Z Of Fetishes…
I thought about doing the A to Z of Fetishes. I may have 2 blogs a day if there is something else I would like to let you know or ask you but I will do my best to stick to 1 a day.
Together with the 2nd website work and blogmas I will be a busy little mistress. I will be fine. The blogs may not be very hearty and long like before but I will upload one a day for you to get back into the way I am.
Apologies…
Apologies for neglecting my website but once the 2nd one is launched you will understand why I have been busy the way I have.
So Take care in all you do sweetie, stay safe and we will talk again in the next blog.