Wednesday 8th December 2021
Blog No.147/ Blogmas No.8a
I have had a few clients contact me expecting me to see them just like that. Now we are at the height of a pandemic and there are new viruses being found amongst us every week and month near on.
Lateral Flow home test (pack of 7)
You need To Take This Seriously…
So I have decided to do a blog on this so I can point you in the direction of this so I don’t have to keep repeating myself. I’m not against mentioning to everyone that contacts me about home testing but it’s better to read about and then you will get all the information correctly. Then you can go back to it if you have to recap.
First Aid Kit Essentials…
As I think everyone should have a lateral flow home test pack of 7 in their first aid kit with the plasters and antiseptic cream (but not everyone does, unfortunately).
My Pandemic Rules…
So my pandemic rules apply to everyone that is new or I have not seen for a length of time goes as follows…
If you are a brand new client that I have not met before…
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If you do not have a pack of home tests go to https://maps.test-and-trace.nhs.uk/ There you will be able to sign in and they will give you a code to take to your local chemist so you can collect your tests. When you have them please send me a photo of them by email.
- 3 days before your appointment I require you to take a home test and send me the result in a photo to my email.
- Then do the same again on the morning of your appointment. I will do the same for you on the morning of your appointment also.
If You Are A Regular Client…
If you have seen me multiple amounts of times then there is a certain level of trust already there on both sides. I would trust in you that if you had any symptoms of anything that you postpone your appointment to save me from falling ill and of cause I would do the same for you.
If I have not seen you for a while then i would expect you to oblige in taking a test on the morning of your arranged appointment and send me the results in a photo form Whatsapp, email, or normal text.
If you do not agree to do what I request…
If this sounds like a lot of work to you then I’m sorry you are not the client for me and I’m not the mistress for you.
I have had to say goodbye to many clients through the lockdowns because they were bored or were just thinking of themselves.
Yes, the lockdown was there for a reason, so abide by it.
I Am Extremely Serious About my Testing…
Life is too short to not care. If I am at home not seeing anyone/no appointments then I will take a test after my last client and if I have been shopping I will take another one to make sure.
There is no need to take a test if it’s just me and the cats and I’m not seeing anyone. If i have my normal 3 appointments a week I do the same for the client as they will do for me. I will send them my test result as well.
I have had some clients contact me and refuse to take a test as they are not ill. So all I can say to that is “Sorry you are not my type of client. Good luck on your search but do be careful in the future who you meet and how you meet them”.
It is so unfortunate we have to do all of this now but I will not be able to understand people that don’t regularly home test and wear face masks in closed-in shops.
This May Be Controversial…
I hate to say this but they are just very selfish people. I’m sorry if this is a controversial subject but I am very strict on this. Even people that have been fully vaccinated are still catching the viruses. Does that not tell everyone something!!!!!
I am not going to continue this blog for too much longer as I can talk for ages on the subject because I am very passionate about keeping my health.
I Will Leave You With This Thought…
So I will leave you with this thought “If you do not have respect for yourself by looking after yourself with masks and tests etc then that shows what a kind of person you are and you are not welcome to visit me”.
Sorry to be so harsh but listen up people this is our way of life now so deal with it…
If you have any more questions etc then CONTACT ME and we can discuss your point of view.
Wednesday 8th December 2021
Blog No.146/ Blogmas No.8
Wow, This one was a test between Humiliation, hoods, hooks yes I know that they all come under BDSM but if you have an interest in one particular thing then that becomes an individual niche/fetish for you.
One Of My Favourite Fetishes…
Now as I have been in the industry a long time I have a fetish for all of them in totally different ways but I did pick Hooks as my favorite out of the 3 choices.
Hood, Collar, and Hook
It’s because they are different. Not everyone likes them but they can be used in so many different ways.
Just because they look gruesome doesn’t mean they have to be. Although you see in the image in this blog this is a mouth hook and nose hook.
If someone wants to be restricted in a way of speech deprivation these little beauties are perfect for that job.
As we are at the height of the pandemic (unfortunately) I have not had the opportunity to use them as much (due to hygienic values). I am always very tip-top on hygiene and cleaning all my equipment (in boiling water etc as guidelines tell me to) but because viruses can be carried from one to the next I always like you to have your own implements.
If you have been to visit me or would like to become a regular client and have these implements involved in your session you will need to arrange with me to have your own.
This is quite simple. If you pay for them in advance I will order them for you and they will be here for you for your next appointment.
I have a few clients that have already done this and I keep your things separate in a box or bag (depending on how much you have) so that it is safe and clean away from other clients’ things.
The other option is that you bring the items with you to each session. Either option, I am fine with it.
Other Options How To Use Hooks…
I have recently had hooks installed in my ceiling in my Dungeon/BDSM Room. This is for the leather
Hook, Cuff. Latex Hood, Chastity, Leash Restriction
swing that I use for suspension sessions. I have also found that the hook in the ceiling doesn’t only have to be for that.
It can be for restricting subs that like to be punished with suspension, even full weight off the floor. This could mean Japanese Rope Art but that’s a different fetish to talk about another time.
As long as you are under 20 stone (that’s the ceiling hooks capacity) then you can be suspended in whatever position I care to put you in. Depending on your health obviously. So as you see Hooks arent that unfriendly as people think they are.
If you have a hook or suspension fetish and would like to pursue it further then CONTACT ME and we can talk more about your requirement.
Tuesday 7th December 2021
Blog No.145/ Blogmas No.7
Being told not to speak is not good enough for some people so an item needs to be used to gag them so they won’t make a sound. To many, this is thrilling and exciting but to others, the thought of having something pushed in their mouth with a material or leather, etc strap tied around their head would be a form of torture they would not like to put into reality
Black, Faux Leather, High, Collar Gag
Types Of Gags…
There are many types of gags in all materials that can be used as a mild form of pleasure or if you a masochist then the experience could go as wild as extreme. If your pain threshold is on a high level then the gags can have things attached to them EG: cock gag, Ball gag.
Care With Use…
The Mistress/Master who is conducting a session when using gags has to know the health status of the client. If they have trouble with breathing, heart problems, or suffer from claustrophobia will not like gags. They are clients that you need to be sympathetic with and eventually you will come to a conclusion of something similar to what they do like. Gags can be fun if used in the right way with the right people.
If you have a fetish that involves gags and breathe play then do CONTACT ME and we can discuss it further.
Take care in all you do and stay safe. Talk again in the next blogmas tomorrow.
Monday 6th December 2021
Blog No.144/ Blogmas No.6
As I have been searching through the fetishes I have come across some very strange but interesting ones but also some ‘wow, really’ ones. Some that will turn your stomach in the sickest ways but for me to write about it I have to agree with it in some way.
Today is F for Forniphilia…
This confused me at looking at the title as it is nothing like the fetish it is supposed to be. Forniphilia is the love of being human furniture.
Being under my shoe boy, where you deserve to be…
I have come across some clients that have wanted to serve me to anything I will say. Yes even resting my tired feet on them on all fours to be my footstool. If I’m feeling extra wicked I will tell them to lay flat on the floor face down and then i will place my feet on them and push them into the floor. Depending on how naughty or good they have been.
The thought of a sub wanting to please their mistress is a pleasure for them but also arousing in all ways of the word.
Obey Your Mistress Or Else…
Having to be still in a certain position is stressful on the body as well as the mind. To be in one position for a length of time you have to go into a subspace where your mind is detached from the aches of your body.
Whether you laying on a carpet, stone, or wooden floor it will be uncomfortable to the limbs at any length of time. That is what your mistress wants, so you will obey her.
If you are interested to be my footstool or seat for your punishment or pleasure then CONTACT ME and I will see if you are of adequate sub material that I can use.
Take care in all you do and stay safe. Talk again tomorrow in the next blogmas if not before.
Sunday 5th December 2021
Blog No.143/ Blogmas No.5
There’s No Room For Flatulence Here…