Wednesday 8th December 2021
Blog No.146/ Blogmas No.8
Wow, This one was a test between Humiliation, hoods, hooks yes I know that they all come under BDSM but if you have an interest in one particular thing then that becomes an individual niche/fetish for you.
One Of My Favourite Fetishes…
Now as I have been in the industry a long time I have a fetish for all of them in totally different ways but I did pick Hooks as my favorite out of the 3 choices.
Hood, Collar, and Hook
It’s because they are different. Not everyone likes them but they can be used in so many different ways.
Just because they look gruesome doesn’t mean they have to be. Although you see in the image in this blog this is a mouth hook and nose hook.
If someone wants to be restricted in a way of speech deprivation these little beauties are perfect for that job.
As we are at the height of the pandemic (unfortunately) I have not had the opportunity to use them as much (due to hygienic values). I am always very tip-top on hygiene and cleaning all my equipment (in boiling water etc as guidelines tell me to) but because viruses can be carried from one to the next I always like you to have your own implements.
If you have been to visit me or would like to become a regular client and have these implements involved in your session you will need to arrange with me to have your own.
This is quite simple. If you pay for them in advance I will order them for you and they will be here for you for your next appointment.
I have a few clients that have already done this and I keep your things separate in a box or bag (depending on how much you have) so that it is safe and clean away from other clients’ things.
The other option is that you bring the items with you to each session. Either option, I am fine with it.
Other Options How To Use Hooks…
I have recently had hooks installed in my ceiling in my Dungeon/BDSM Room. This is for the leather
Hook, Cuff. Latex Hood, Chastity, Leash Restriction
swing that I use for suspension sessions. I have also found that the hook in the ceiling doesn’t only have to be for that.
It can be for restricting subs that like to be punished with suspension, even full weight off the floor. This could mean Japanese Rope Art but that’s a different fetish to talk about another time.
As long as you are under 20 stone (that’s the ceiling hooks capacity) then you can be suspended in whatever position I care to put you in. Depending on your health obviously. So as you see Hooks arent that unfriendly as people think they are.
If you have a hook or suspension fetish and would like to pursue it further then CONTACT ME and we can talk more about your requirement.
Tuesday 7th December 2021
Blog No.145/ Blogmas No.7
Being told not to speak is not good enough for some people so an item needs to be used to gag them so they won’t make a sound. To many, this is thrilling and exciting but to others, the thought of having something pushed in their mouth with a material or leather, etc strap tied around their head would be a form of torture they would not like to put into reality
Black, Faux Leather, High, Collar Gag
Types Of Gags…
There are many types of gags in all materials that can be used as a mild form of pleasure or if you a masochist then the experience could go as wild as extreme. If your pain threshold is on a high level then the gags can have things attached to them EG: cock gag, Ball gag.
Care With Use…
The Mistress/Master who is conducting a session when using gags has to know the health status of the client. If they have trouble with breathing, heart problems, or suffer from claustrophobia will not like gags. They are clients that you need to be sympathetic with and eventually you will come to a conclusion of something similar to what they do like. Gags can be fun if used in the right way with the right people.
If you have a fetish that involves gags and breathe play then do CONTACT ME and we can discuss it further.
Take care in all you do and stay safe. Talk again in the next blogmas tomorrow.
Monday 6th December 2021
Blog No.144/ Blogmas No.6
As I have been searching through the fetishes I have come across some very strange but interesting ones but also some ‘wow, really’ ones. Some that will turn your stomach in the sickest ways but for me to write about it I have to agree with it in some way.
Today is F for Forniphilia…
This confused me at looking at the title as it is nothing like the fetish it is supposed to be. Forniphilia is the love of being human furniture.
Being under my shoe boy, where you deserve to be…
I have come across some clients that have wanted to serve me to anything I will say. Yes even resting my tired feet on them on all fours to be my footstool. If I’m feeling extra wicked I will tell them to lay flat on the floor face down and then i will place my feet on them and push them into the floor. Depending on how naughty or good they have been.
The thought of a sub wanting to please their mistress is a pleasure for them but also arousing in all ways of the word.
Obey Your Mistress Or Else…
Having to be still in a certain position is stressful on the body as well as the mind. To be in one position for a length of time you have to go into a subspace where your mind is detached from the aches of your body.
Whether you laying on a carpet, stone, or wooden floor it will be uncomfortable to the limbs at any length of time. That is what your mistress wants, so you will obey her.
If you are interested to be my footstool or seat for your punishment or pleasure then CONTACT ME and I will see if you are of adequate sub material that I can use.
Take care in all you do and stay safe. Talk again tomorrow in the next blogmas if not before.
Sunday 5th December 2021
Blog No.143/ Blogmas No.5
There’s No Room For Flatulence Here…
Latin words always make a fetish niche sound so mysterious and knowledgeable. That’s why I do my homework on these subjects. So today it is Eproctophilia and yet it is unrecognizable to what it is in the title. Unlike tablet is a table in french. Easy to know what it is. So have you given up on what it means?
Ok, this fetish is Flatulence, Farting, Botty Burps, Breaking Wind, Tooter, Fluffing, Booty Cough, Gassy, Trumpet, Foghorn, Duck Call, etc and the list goes on.
When we were kids or even now when we are adults if someone fluffs at an inappropriate or not expected time it becomes hilarious. Especially if they are not known to do that and then they do. It can be pant wetting at times.
Started in the industry…
Until I started in the industry I did not know that it was a turn-on to have a female let go on his face or near him, let alone he would pay to feel such an experience.
Some people are extremely gassy as they may have a varied way of eating. In return, it will let out a strong odor that is powerful enough to burn your nostril hairs.
Yet others won’t produce and air and you will never hear them pass wind (or they might hold it till they are alone). As they say “you are what you eat” and you sure are.
So Funny…
I Have experienced a few moments of embarrassment but I do remember one time a good few years ago when I went on holiday to Greece (early 1990’s ) I and my ex-husband went away with another couple that we had met in our local pub. We were departing from Heathrow and had some time to wait as we had got to our boarding gate early. The seats we had picked were in 3’s so Chris decided to sit on the floor. It was a rubber design for easy cleaning. He had some music on his earphones but we could all hear it if it was turned up to a certain level. He decided to rock backward, forwards, and side to side to the beat of the music as a little sit-down dance to pass the time. On one of the side-to-side rocks he let out an almighty fart that he thought wasn’t going to sound…but It did. I have never heard a fart echo in an airport as much as what this did. He didn’t need a microphone to be loud, the hollowness of the terminal did that for him. The embarrassment that showed on his face was a picture. He hung his head in shame and ask me “did anyone hear that?” The whole terminal was in hysterics.
So if anyone has a fetish for Eproctophilia don’t contact me but for any fetishes that are on my FETSH LIST do CONTACT ME.
Saturday 4th December 2021
Blog No.142/ Blogmas No.4
When I was thinking about today’s letter of the alphabet I didn’t want to do an obvious one like domination or dogging. As yes they are fetish even though they are a big world in their own niche.
So I choose Dwarfism. It could be a controversial subject but I will do my best to be politically correct. I know a little about it but the research I did was amusing in some places and yet interesting.
29/11/21 – Looking down is my only option otherwise I won’t see you…
When I first started in the industry I met a smaller-than-average chap. I have met a few shorter guys over the years but this guy I remember 14 years on.
I did have (back then) on my list of interests, wrestling. He had contacted me and mentioned a few of his likes and dislikes (as I normally ask for every client). I agreed as his requests were to my liking.
I had mentioned that he was shorter in height but I didn’t take much notice. I don’t judge anyone on what they look like. As long as you are polite and healthy that is all that matters to me. We agreed on a date and time and waited for that day to arrive.
When I heard a ring on my bell at the time of his appointment I opened the front door, stood behind it, and waited for him to walk in.
I was shocked at first but if I had looked out of my spy hole in my front door I would not have seen him. He described himself as vertically challenged. He said it with a snigger and that made me feel a lot more comfortable as I didn’t want to offend him with my initial facial expression when greeting him.
He was a down-to-earth type of guy (excuse the pun) and it helped our time together flow much more smoothly.
Although he was a small guy he was still of a good weight. I went to the gym then but didn’t do many upper body strength exercises. Only what I felt comfortable with.
I managed to hold him in some restriction moves and locks but that was only because he did not resist and try to get out of them. Which I was thankful for.
When a client would contact me about wrestling fetish I would tell them my rules so they would know what I am happy with. It was a great session.
I didn’t have another appointment with him as I soon after decided not to offer wrestling due to my back. Even little moves would play havoc with it. So I thought it best to cross that fetish off my list.
To many vertically challenged people they can make it work for them and make a very good living from it. Actors/actress nightclub mascots, kissagrams, etc
There is also the other side of the health issues that I have read about as well. It’s not nice but many have learnt how to deal with it.
Not all short people have a great time as there are some cruel people in this world that shout abuse etc to them with no reason to.
I always think you were born this way for a reason so make the most of it. Life would be boring if we all look and built the same.
As one of my mottos mentions ‘You only have one life, so don’t waste it. This includes ‘it doesn’t matter what you look like, we all have our own personal worries’
If you have a wrestling fetish it’s probably best not to contact me but if you have a FETISH that you think I would be accommodating with then do CONTACT ME.
Take care in all you do sweetie, stay safe, and talk soon in my next blog.