Thursday 23th December 2021
Blog No.161/ Blogmas No.23
“Please accept my apologies as this Blogmas is late but I have had a build-up of things to complete and I was unable to fit this in in the time frame of the 23rd December. Please enjoy and let me know what you think if you wish.”
When looking for fetishes for certain letters of the alphabet it is testing, very testing indeed. I didn’t want to do just normal fetishes but I couldn’t think of anything else apart from whipping which is part of corporal Punishment and wrestling which is something I don’t offer. Then I thought… Waist sculpting is a fetish for small waists.
When It was First Brought To Our Attention…
Thursday 23rd December 2021
Blog No.161/ Blogmas No.23
Waist sculpting is a very old fetish that goes back to Greek times and before. The terminology for sculpting garments changed through the centuries
The first recorded corset-style garment was recorded in Crete, Greece 3500 BC, and worn by the Minoan people. The garment was worn to accentuate the curves of the torso and uplift the bustline as they did not have bra’s in those days. As a young woman would grow through her teens and into her adult life she would be made to wear a corset continuously so her form would grow in the shape of the cotte. Both Minoan men and women were trained this way. The particular cote that you see in the image is called a ‘Zona’. which was only designed for women at that time.
In The Later Centuries…
In the 12 century, the boned stiffness was sewn into the dress that madam would require. In this era, there were no undergarments such as corsets. The dress would have customized boning where the torso needed it to make the female look her very best.
Thursday 23rd December 2021
Blog No.161/ Blogmas No.23
“Skipping a few centuries as trust me I love doing this research and I could write a book on corsetry and waist sculpting but this is a blog, not a lecture or book so I need to keep it compacted and to the point without boring you too much”.
In the 17th Century, a female-boned undergarment was introduced as an easier way to sculpt the waist and keep it minimal. This was known as a ‘Stay’. It was a very basic design but because it was at the beginning of something big in the fashion world there was plenty of room for improvement. It was designed without a front closure and only laces at the back for tightening and keeping in place. Being that it was a foundation garment to be worn under the lady’s clothing it had to be minimal but sturdy.
In the 18th Century, the stay evolved into becoming known as a corset. This was much more structured and the design became a little more adventurous. As from then on it became a fashion that everyone wanted to wear, even men.
The Last Few Centuries…
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The 17th, 18th, and 19th Centuries have become a mixed fashion evolvement. As you see from the image, the stay has changed and is now known as a corset. Going from a classic form to an underbust and overbust and many more exquisitely detailed designs that have been used as undergarments and over the top of clothes to make a statement in an outfit, you would feel confident in.
In all of these cottes, stays, and corsets they have all been abiding by the one job that they have and that is to give the form a better silhouette and make the individual feel better about themselves.
Conclusion…
I am a big fan of corsets, I have been for years. Although on me I am not a lover of waist sculpting in the long term. I do love to wear them to sculpt the body I do have right now. I
It doesn’t matter what size you are, if you feel good in all you wear then the confidence will radiate from you.
Corsets come in all sizes so if you want to wear one to give you a better shape and to make you feel good then go ahead and do it.
Life is far too short to worry about what people think. Yes, there may be someone else that looks better than you but if you’re comfortable in the skin that you were born in then that is all that matters.
Don’t Ever Forget…
You are unique and beautiful in your own way. So love yourself and then your find everyone else will be drawn to you.
Contact Me…
If you feel you would like to have some training on corsetry and what you need to feel and look better then, by all means, CONTACT ME and we can converse about your requirements.
Disclaimer – The information for this Blogmas was taken from numerous amount contacts that I have added the sources for you to look at if you wish.
Wednesday 22th December 2021
Blog No.160/ Blogmas No.22
Time to get Christmassy
As I sit at my laptop with my mug of coffee and 2 mince pies (sorry just eat them) and chocolate biscuits trying to feel Christmasy, I think of how I am going to put today’s blogmas together.
A Combination of The Two Fetishes Flows Perfectly…
Vicarphilia is a very different type of fetish but it’s one that we all have in our list of likes without knowing it. It’s the desire to listen to naughty stories of people’s experiences or to converse with a friend/mistress/therapist about sexual adventures. This combined with Voyeurism is a perfect combination for today’s blogmas.
Why do we love watching…
Watching any sexual/fetish act is arousing in the mind of the kinkster. We all have our own fetishes that we like more than others. These would be more arousing to us than the less interesting topics.
Voyeurism also can be a learning process as well as a topic of interest. If the couple that is performing in front of you are expecting you to join in in due course, then observing how and what they are doing will give you an insight into how they would like you to do things. Not every technique is favorable to everyone.
Vicarphilia…
At the end of your time together is a perfect time to talk about and go through what happened, how you felt whilst you were tending each other, etc… This can also be a very sexy time for all of you. Maybe acting out what your trying to say may give you all an opportunity for round 2. Everyone needs a breather in between ejaculations. Respect each other’s time and requests and you could have yourself a long term relationship with a very handy couple of friends.
Therapy Service Only…
If you are in need of a Vicraphilia Therapist then do CONTACT ME and we can arrange a date and a time to converse about your request. This type of therapy is ideal on the phone or WhatsApp/skype video calling.
My tributes are dependant on how long you would like but we can discuss that when you contact me.
Tuesday 21th December 2021
Blog No.159/ Blogmas No.21
DISCLAIMER: AS THIS IS A SEXUAL TOPIC THERE WILL BE NO IMAGES TO VIEW
This may be a familiar fetish with yourself or not, even so, when you realize what it is you will understand why less than 5% of the world have enjoyed it or not enjoyed it. The fetish called Urolagnia is commonly known as water sports.
An interaction that could offend some people if their partner was to accidentally do it during their intimate time together or may enjoy it. There are many things that can be involved in this fetish topic but I will only be talking about a couple of them today.
Sexual Act…
It can be known as a sexual act if the person consents to it happening or it can be an insult that is performed to show hatred. When you are involved in such an act you much make sure that the person’s urine does not make contact with you if you have a cut or an open wound.
Unhygienic…
Urine is not hygienic to consume and can transfer germs from one person to another via the open wound. Yes, it can be exciting to have a woman squirt on you but that is something completely different.
Female Squirting…
Female squirting is in with this fetish but it is a weaker fluid than urine. The gland tissue that produces fluid (located at the G-Spot) guides the fluid to the urethra but it back steps to the bladder when the woman has a moment of extreme excitement. This is the same as when a guy produces pre-cum before ejaculating.
The First Time It Happens…
When it happens to a woman it is a bit confusing at first. When a guy experiences it from a woman he becomes either excited and interested even more or disgusted until he understands what it really is. Even when he understands what it is he still may be degusted depending on what fetishes he is into.
A Word Of Advice…
If you have a partner that squirts, enjoy it when it happens (obviously have loads of towels ready to save the area you are laying in from getting soaked, and then you will have to sleep elsewhere) as it will not happen every time. Please don’t expect it to happen every time. Most females, don’t know when it happens until it does. Also, don’t be disappointed in your partner if she can not do it when you want it to happen. Most females can not do it on command. If they do then it is not true squirt. It is pure urine.
When will it happen?…
If you are treating your female right and touching her right she will be much more relaxed and then her body will reward you for what you would like to see. One thing there is to take into consideration…if she has a bad day at work or she is stressed in any way then her body will shut down even if she wants to have intimate time with you to try to destress her. Sometimes the human body does not always have contact with the brain when you want it to.
Have patience…
You can not rush a feeling. When it is ready to give your lady a ride of her life, not even she will know until it happens. So as I say have patience and in time you will be gifted when you’re not expecting it.
Surprises…
Everyone loves nice surprises. So embrace it when it is given to you. If you don’t embrace it and show her you’re not excited by it then just be ready for a cold shoulder from her. Turning the sexy mood off in an instant is a very good way for cutting short your intimate time. Also, that may end your intimate time permanently because a woman never forgets a brush-off. As a female is very good at making things seem ok but deep down she will wait for the right time to get her revenge.
Don’t contact me for this fetish…
Now although I always say at the end of a blog “Contact me if you are interested in this fetish”. For this fetish, I will be happy to do a therapy session (talking and explaining) with you to improve your intimate time but I am not offering a service of me doing this fetish.
I thought I would mention this in case you had other ideas. So do CONTACT ME if you need some therapy.
Monday 20th December 2021
Blog No.158/ Blogmas No.20
December 2021
Everyone that has a beating heart has the means to accommodate this fetish. We all have different colours of it and it has a valued purpose to every one of us. Some of us lose it through illness, stress, or skin complaint, and others get rid of it because they hate it.
Have You Realized What iI Is Yet?
Yes, you guessed it… Body Hair. Hair is Loved in so many different ways that it can cause all sort of emotions in individuals.
What Type Of Hair?
Hair in general comes in so many different forms that when on different parts of the body it sets off many emotions. Hair can be on the head, facial hair (men or women), Body hair (as in all over the body in a lite form on women or men) forearm hair armpit hair, pubic hair leg hair, toe hair. It doesn’t matter where the hair is there will always be someone somewhere that will love your hair.
Why Does It Arouse Us?
Attraction is in the eye of the beholder. It all steams done to how we were brought up as a child. If you were used to seeing your family members with natural hair then you will accept hair in all its integrity. If your mother was again hair on women or untidy hair on men then you will grow up absorbing these ways.
Hair around the world…
In many parts of the world, the cultures are all for nature’s way regarding body har on both sexes. They may not have the means to shave or wax and so the hair grows freely. So women may grow better chest hair or beards than men or vice versa but even still it is accepted.
Why Do We Have Body Hair?
I Don’t Have Much Hair Here (I’ve been tweezering for 20 years)
Hair is strategically placed on our bodies when the animal was created in the year dot. Animals over time have kept their hair but as the human being has evolved we have naturally reduced the amount of hair to be acceptable in many ways. Some of the individuals of the female species have chosen to remove their armpit, pubic, and leg hair to be more attractive to the opposite sex…but is that proven to be attractive to the opposite sex? That is the question. The real reason hair is placed on our body is to protect certain areas as a hygiene barrier.
Trichophilia Fantasy…
Overtime man has developed a fascination for the female hair pattern on various parts of her anatomy. The attraction is down to individual fantasy. Whether it is above board and in a visual type of way. By stroking the hair on her head or is it in a sexual desire to taste or feel the hair on his face. Either way, he has a Trichophilia fetish and he has it bad.
Hair Fascination Can Be Addictive…
Depending on what type of hair fetish you have it can control your imagination to an extent that you look at everyone you meet in your everyday life. You may have been attracted to your partner because of the hairstyle or body hair. Keeping your fetish alive can be testing at times especially if your partner has had a change of heart and decided to shave or cut it off to remodel her/himself. At that point you need to look elsewhere to get your fix.
Mistress Lucy’s Hair…
I Became A Princess For Day…So Not The Real Me…
Over the years I have always kept my hairstyles natural or coloured, short or shaven. As I have grown older I have found that a shaved style does not suit me as well as when I was slim and younger. So i am going into phase 2 of my career and I am growing it longer. How long is a different matter, I’m not sure.
My subs and slaves seem to be a fan of the longer look with all the creations of my wigs and hairpieces that i put together in my many alter egos.
Shall Mistress Grow her hair…or not?
I did manage to grow my hair before I came to Northampton back in 1999. I grew it for my wedding. I did not feel like me. As I felt it had to be in a long hairstyle for the style of the dress. I loved the dress, off-the-shoulder, big long skirt with a bustle at the bottom of the spine. Absolutely beautiful. Size 8/10 I managed to get down to (but that was through stress. I wanted the day but
My Traveling Days – Blonde Didn’t Last For Long (bleach not healthy for my hair)
I was not happy with the guy. That’s another story for another time). Made from brush silk. When I think back I wish I had had it the way I wanted it but I did not have the persona that I have now. A lot has changed since then. It did not last. Hence the move to Northampton in the year 2000.
So I would like to grow my hair again but without hair colour. I think being able to set it and put it up in all different ways would be fun. I also could get my hairdressing kinksters to have a better time in session than they are already. I could be their model by washing, blowdrying, setting, perming ( water as a makeshift perm lotion and neutralizer) Colouring ( using conditioner as a makeshift colour). I have hair long enough to do this now.
Trichophilia appointments…
If you have a hair fetish of any kind (only head and body hair, NOT pubic hair) then CONTACT ME and we can discuss your requirements.
Sunday 19th December 2021
Blog No.157/ Blogmas No.19
Tonight I am going to enjoy this fetish as I am this fetish. It is part of what I do and i enjoy doing it. To accept becoming a sadist Mistress you have to know the different levels of pain.
What is Pain?…
So…What Are You Waiting For?