Wednesday 22th December 2021
Blog No.160/ Blogmas No.22
Time to get Christmassy
As I sit at my laptop with my mug of coffee and 2 mince pies (sorry just eat them) and chocolate biscuits trying to feel Christmasy, I think of how I am going to put today’s blogmas together.
A Combination of The Two Fetishes Flows Perfectly…
Vicarphilia is a very different type of fetish but it’s one that we all have in our list of likes without knowing it. It’s the desire to listen to naughty stories of people’s experiences or to converse with a friend/mistress/therapist about sexual adventures. This combined with Voyeurism is a perfect combination for today’s blogmas.
Why do we love watching…
Watching any sexual/fetish act is arousing in the mind of the kinkster. We all have our own fetishes that we like more than others. These would be more arousing to us than the less interesting topics.
Voyeurism also can be a learning process as well as a topic of interest. If the couple that is performing in front of you are expecting you to join in in due course, then observing how and what they are doing will give you an insight into how they would like you to do things. Not every technique is favorable to everyone.
Vicarphilia…
At the end of your time together is a perfect time to talk about and go through what happened, how you felt whilst you were tending each other, etc… This can also be a very sexy time for all of you. Maybe acting out what your trying to say may give you all an opportunity for round 2. Everyone needs a breather in between ejaculations. Respect each other’s time and requests and you could have yourself a long term relationship with a very handy couple of friends.
Therapy Service Only…
If you are in need of a Vicraphilia Therapist then do CONTACT ME and we can arrange a date and a time to converse about your request. This type of therapy is ideal on the phone or WhatsApp/skype video calling.
My tributes are dependant on how long you would like but we can discuss that when you contact me.
Tuesday 21th December 2021
Blog No.159/ Blogmas No.21
DISCLAIMER: AS THIS IS A SEXUAL TOPIC THERE WILL BE NO IMAGES TO VIEW
This may be a familiar fetish with yourself or not, even so, when you realize what it is you will understand why less than 5% of the world have enjoyed it or not enjoyed it. The fetish called Urolagnia is commonly known as water sports.
An interaction that could offend some people if their partner was to accidentally do it during their intimate time together or may enjoy it. There are many things that can be involved in this fetish topic but I will only be talking about a couple of them today.
Sexual Act…
It can be known as a sexual act if the person consents to it happening or it can be an insult that is performed to show hatred. When you are involved in such an act you much make sure that the person’s urine does not make contact with you if you have a cut or an open wound.
Unhygienic…
Urine is not hygienic to consume and can transfer germs from one person to another via the open wound. Yes, it can be exciting to have a woman squirt on you but that is something completely different.
Female Squirting…
Female squirting is in with this fetish but it is a weaker fluid than urine. The gland tissue that produces fluid (located at the G-Spot) guides the fluid to the urethra but it back steps to the bladder when the woman has a moment of extreme excitement. This is the same as when a guy produces pre-cum before ejaculating.
The First Time It Happens…
When it happens to a woman it is a bit confusing at first. When a guy experiences it from a woman he becomes either excited and interested even more or disgusted until he understands what it really is. Even when he understands what it is he still may be degusted depending on what fetishes he is into.
A Word Of Advice…
If you have a partner that squirts, enjoy it when it happens (obviously have loads of towels ready to save the area you are laying in from getting soaked, and then you will have to sleep elsewhere) as it will not happen every time. Please don’t expect it to happen every time. Most females, don’t know when it happens until it does. Also, don’t be disappointed in your partner if she can not do it when you want it to happen. Most females can not do it on command. If they do then it is not true squirt. It is pure urine.
When will it happen?…
If you are treating your female right and touching her right she will be much more relaxed and then her body will reward you for what you would like to see. One thing there is to take into consideration…if she has a bad day at work or she is stressed in any way then her body will shut down even if she wants to have intimate time with you to try to destress her. Sometimes the human body does not always have contact with the brain when you want it to.
Have patience…
You can not rush a feeling. When it is ready to give your lady a ride of her life, not even she will know until it happens. So as I say have patience and in time you will be gifted when you’re not expecting it.
Surprises…
Everyone loves nice surprises. So embrace it when it is given to you. If you don’t embrace it and show her you’re not excited by it then just be ready for a cold shoulder from her. Turning the sexy mood off in an instant is a very good way for cutting short your intimate time. Also, that may end your intimate time permanently because a woman never forgets a brush-off. As a female is very good at making things seem ok but deep down she will wait for the right time to get her revenge.
Don’t contact me for this fetish…
Now although I always say at the end of a blog “Contact me if you are interested in this fetish”. For this fetish, I will be happy to do a therapy session (talking and explaining) with you to improve your intimate time but I am not offering a service of me doing this fetish.
I thought I would mention this in case you had other ideas. So do CONTACT ME if you need some therapy.
Monday 20th December 2021
Blog No.158/ Blogmas No.20
December 2021
Everyone that has a beating heart has the means to accommodate this fetish. We all have different colours of it and it has a valued purpose to every one of us. Some of us lose it through illness, stress, or skin complaint, and others get rid of it because they hate it.
Have You Realized What iI Is Yet?
Yes, you guessed it… Body Hair. Hair is Loved in so many different ways that it can cause all sort of emotions in individuals.
What Type Of Hair?
Hair in general comes in so many different forms that when on different parts of the body it sets off many emotions. Hair can be on the head, facial hair (men or women), Body hair (as in all over the body in a lite form on women or men) forearm hair armpit hair, pubic hair leg hair, toe hair. It doesn’t matter where the hair is there will always be someone somewhere that will love your hair.
Why Does It Arouse Us?
Attraction is in the eye of the beholder. It all steams done to how we were brought up as a child. If you were used to seeing your family members with natural hair then you will accept hair in all its integrity. If your mother was again hair on women or untidy hair on men then you will grow up absorbing these ways.
Hair around the world…
In many parts of the world, the cultures are all for nature’s way regarding body har on both sexes. They may not have the means to shave or wax and so the hair grows freely. So women may grow better chest hair or beards than men or vice versa but even still it is accepted.
Why Do We Have Body Hair?
I Don’t Have Much Hair Here (I’ve been tweezering for 20 years)
Hair is strategically placed on our bodies when the animal was created in the year dot. Animals over time have kept their hair but as the human being has evolved we have naturally reduced the amount of hair to be acceptable in many ways. Some of the individuals of the female species have chosen to remove their armpit, pubic, and leg hair to be more attractive to the opposite sex…but is that proven to be attractive to the opposite sex? That is the question. The real reason hair is placed on our body is to protect certain areas as a hygiene barrier.
Trichophilia Fantasy…
Overtime man has developed a fascination for the female hair pattern on various parts of her anatomy. The attraction is down to individual fantasy. Whether it is above board and in a visual type of way. By stroking the hair on her head or is it in a sexual desire to taste or feel the hair on his face. Either way, he has a Trichophilia fetish and he has it bad.
Hair Fascination Can Be Addictive…
Depending on what type of hair fetish you have it can control your imagination to an extent that you look at everyone you meet in your everyday life. You may have been attracted to your partner because of the hairstyle or body hair. Keeping your fetish alive can be testing at times especially if your partner has had a change of heart and decided to shave or cut it off to remodel her/himself. At that point you need to look elsewhere to get your fix.
Mistress Lucy’s Hair…
I Became A Princess For Day…So Not The Real Me…
Over the years I have always kept my hairstyles natural or coloured, short or shaven. As I have grown older I have found that a shaved style does not suit me as well as when I was slim and younger. So i am going into phase 2 of my career and I am growing it longer. How long is a different matter, I’m not sure.
My subs and slaves seem to be a fan of the longer look with all the creations of my wigs and hairpieces that i put together in my many alter egos.
Shall Mistress Grow her hair…or not?
I did manage to grow my hair before I came to Northampton back in 1999. I grew it for my wedding. I did not feel like me. As I felt it had to be in a long hairstyle for the style of the dress. I loved the dress, off-the-shoulder, big long skirt with a bustle at the bottom of the spine. Absolutely beautiful. Size 8/10 I managed to get down to (but that was through stress. I wanted the day but
My Traveling Days – Blonde Didn’t Last For Long (bleach not healthy for my hair)
I was not happy with the guy. That’s another story for another time). Made from brush silk. When I think back I wish I had had it the way I wanted it but I did not have the persona that I have now. A lot has changed since then. It did not last. Hence the move to Northampton in the year 2000.
So I would like to grow my hair again but without hair colour. I think being able to set it and put it up in all different ways would be fun. I also could get my hairdressing kinksters to have a better time in session than they are already. I could be their model by washing, blowdrying, setting, perming ( water as a makeshift perm lotion and neutralizer) Colouring ( using conditioner as a makeshift colour). I have hair long enough to do this now.
Trichophilia appointments…
If you have a hair fetish of any kind (only head and body hair, NOT pubic hair) then CONTACT ME and we can discuss your requirements.
Sunday 19th December 2021
Blog No.157/ Blogmas No.19
Tonight I am going to enjoy this fetish as I am this fetish. It is part of what I do and i enjoy doing it. To accept becoming a sadist Mistress you have to know the different levels of pain.
What is Pain?…
So…What Are You Waiting For?
The definition of pain is totally down to the individual. To one person it can mean getting a tiny splinter and to another, it can mean taking a hard beating at a corporal punishment session.
What do I like about being a sadist?…
The feeling of being in control is what I love about my sessions. Guiding the level of pain at certain times so I can take the sub on a rollercoaster of a journey. Increasing the intensity whether it is electrics, vibration, or touch. The feeling that travels through the subs body is what makes me thrive at that particular time. I don’t plan anything. This is why I am happy that I have got to my level of profession that I can change on the spare of the moment what I do. If I plan a session in my head then the client changes his mind or the body language guides me in a different direction I have no choice but to go that way.
Are You A Masochist Who Is In Search Of A Sadist To Control You Levels Of Pain?
If so CONTACT ME and we can converse and see what type of pain I can inflict on you… Pleasurable pain obviously.
Saturday 18th December 2021
Blog No.156/ Blogmas No.18
Restriction is a small word for such a big fetish. To Anyone that doesn’t know much about it, they would think wrong things about it. If you are really into it then it can be very arousing and erotic if you are in the right frame of mind.
Mental restriction…
I Will Restrict You, Mind, Body, And Soul…
For someone that is not familiar with their mistress, mental restriction is the best way to ease their uncertainty. To tell them to put their hands in a certain position is much more comfortable for their ease so that if they don’t want to continue or feel they need to move their arms ect they can.
Cuffs and Rope…
When they are happier in your presence then cuffs and rope can
Restrictive Hogtied…
be introduced. A connection between the mistress and sub is essential for the session to flow just right when using physical restriction equipment. Depending on the type of cuffs you can have the wrists and ankles immobilized separately or hogtied and have them linked together. This all depends on the mobility of the subs joints. I am all for pleasurable pain that lasts for hours but not pain that they have difficulty with for days after the session has ended.
Suspension restriction…
Now, this is very exciting to use in a session. Again depending on the sub’s mobility and fitness is depending on what position you are able to suspend them in. I have hooks in the ceiling of my dungeon so this is possible. Like Japanese rope art if you suspend the sub in a beautifully decorative way the sub’s limbs will be restricted but they
Nipple Chopsticks May Not Seem Much But Have You Tried Them???
have no cushioning from the rope on their body. So if the sub is inexperienced this could be very uncomfortable for them. The heavier the body the more painful the rope will be on the flesh. Restrictive rope art is much more pleasant on a bench as your body weight will not discomfort you at all.
Smaller Restrictive Equipment…
When a sub needs to be put in restraints it doesn’t only have to be cuffs or rope there are lots of other ways. Cuffs can mean Metal Thumb Cuff, Metal Handcuffs ( police role play), Leather Cuffs, Armbinder, Humbler, Ball Crusher of multiple materials, Testicle Weights, Chastity Devices of all shapes and designs. The list can go on.
Leather Body Bag With Detachable Hood…
Restriction is applied with this body bag. From your neck to feet it has multiple leather strapping to further restrict all movement. If you have an itch then you have to sort it before your incased. To have your full body in restrictive wear it can be very exciting to have your control taken away. To be teased from all angles and not be able to do anything about it can blow your mind. If you have fully given your whole being to your mistress for the session it makes the time
Full Restrictive Leather Body Bag With Detachable Hood