Saturday 7th December
Postmas NO.7.
Too many people handing over control to a female for 5 minutes let alone 5 hours can seem like torture and not in a good way or to others it can be all they ever live for.
Silent sessions are a powerful sub-space where to be put into a hood or a mask and told not to speak until the mistress says, can double or even triple the intensity of your imagination.
Mild or Extreme, your in the same subspace in your imagination either way
The Darkness clears your mind and takes you to where ever you want to go. With each touch of the mistress’s hand, you are absorbed by her power and you can only be on edge to wonder what she is going to do next.
Time is endless when incarcerated. You have no sense of how long you’re in there for.
Your only thought is ‘i don’t want this to stop’ as this new feeling she has introduced to you is nothing like you have experienced before.
How long your body and mind can take this feeling is a great surprise to you. As she takes you on a roller coaster of emotions. Edging you to the brink of exploding but just before you do she takes 1 step back and calms you down.
This can not be done many times as then you will go past the feeling of being overwhelmed and it will not give you the end result you deserve.
How Far Can Your Subspace Take You?
Then again, edging performed by an experienced mistress will make you shake and quiver throughout your whole body at the end and make you think “what the heck happened there?!”.
At a truly powerful ending you will need 5-10 minutes even before you move to sit up off the BDSM Table. If you move to fast you will get a light-headed feeling that could make you feel dizzy.
If you find a mistress with heavenly hands stick with her as who knows what your next experience will be like under her control.
If you would like to experience a silent session or anything else that gets you imagination wondering contact me and we can converse about wondering minds in more depth.
Friday 6th Decenber
Postmas NO.6.
As I sit here at my office desk tapping away on my laptop with my Christmas lights around my barber’s mirror and the decorated pine wreath with a lit double wick candle nestles comfortably on my coffee table, I listen to the instrumental Christmas tunes on youtube. What a great life I have at the moment.
Knee-length, PVC, Black, Shiny Boots With Rose Emblem On The Sole
Thinking about it, 10 years that I have been building up to this point in my career has been a hard struggle some times but its all been worth it.
All the fetishes I have learnt to feel comfortable with over time have added to build my confidence in one way or another.
No one feels confident about a subject they know nothing about. Researching all subjects you practice in is a must to grow your skills to a better standard.
This is why trampling has become of my popular fetishes.
My footwear collection has grown to more than I can imagine. Including flat and heeled boots, anything from ankle to under the buttocks length boots. Shoes from court to strappy sandals, flat to platformed sky scrapper heels.
It can even be performed in bare feet or tights or stockinged feet.
The more slender the heels, I would have to be careful where I would be trampling you as I don’t want to pierce the skin.
Trampling can be on any part of the body including the head. It is scary to a novice client experiencing this but once used to it you become more relaxed.
Mistresses Fishnet Stocking Feet
Be careful when choosing a Mistress for this fetish as there are soft points of the head that can cause injury on impact.
Like any fetish, there are right ways and wrong ways EG: Caning. Anal and sounds but to name a few.
Experience goes a long way in giving you the right sort of pleasure in subjects like these.
Like one client that visited me many years ago…….
He had a thing about Doc Martin Boots. Unfortunately, he did not gift them to me but brought them with him and took them away with him afterward.
He searched for ladies with size 7 feet to complete this fetish for him. I saw him a few times.
Black Platform, Skyscrapper Heeled Shoes With Black Latex Stockings
He was a chunky chappy which was ideal really as back then I was a little heavier than I am today.
The one rule that you should always abide by when searching for a trampling Mistress. Only choose a lady that is lighter than you, otherwise you will end up in A&E with a cracked rib or hopefully nothing worse.
He would ask me to put the boots on (always with leather-look trousers, not actual leather as the DM boots were Vegan Leather Look).
He would lay on the floor, I would sit on his chest with one boot at either side of his ears so he could rest his head on the top of the toes of the boots.
We would chat a little about what he likes about this fetish and other fetishes.
I then would put the sole of one of the boots on his cheek and put pressure on his head by turning it into the other boot.
The pressure was quite consistent. It would make an indentation to his face but it didn’t last very long.
I would continue this all over this face and head. The boots and soles where immaculate even though they were clearly visible that they had been worn for this fetish many times.
It was only his head and face that he wanted this to be performed on him. He always stayed fully clothed because he wasn’t confident about his body.
Flat DM Like Boots
He said it was the compact feeling that the boots made to his face that turned him on. The feeling of the indentations of that particular sole of boot that gave him the adrenaline rush.
It was because each person is a different weight and not known how light or heavy they would be putting pressure on his skull at that time.
When your in an industry like this, one comes across so many different weird and wonderful people with so many different weird and wonderful fetishes in so many different weird and wonderful ways that one has to be open-minded.
As I say “It takes one to know one”.
So if your weird and wonderful do contact me and let me know and I’m sure we will have some weird and wonderful conversations about it all………
Thursday 5th December 2019
Postmas NO.5.
When walking around the shops do my everyday shopping, I am just me. Minding my own business and doing what I like best.
To other people that look at me, they probably think what a grumpy, miserable-looking woman. As I say I am who I am.
‘Never judge a book by its cover’ as I’m far from it.
Depending on what industry your in sometimes it gets embedded in you.
Being a mistress for 10 years makes me be and look dominant 100% of the time in my career and personal life.
I could look dominant in a pinky flowery dress and sandals. I don’t mind at all.
So if you ever see me in the street or out, I do not ignore you on purpose. I am very discreet in all aspects of what I do which is best for both of us.
I am also very friendly in my own way as I do like to talk to other customers in the shops if I see a pair of shoes etc. Some like to chat and others on odd occasions don’t.
That is fine, I’m thick-skinned and don’t take anything to heart. ‘If you can’t take it then don’t dish it out’ is a well-known saying.
Well have fun Christmas shopping and don’t buy anything I wouldn’t buy……that’s not much as I looooove shopping.
Wednesday 4th December 2019
Postmas NO.4.
The world of BDSM and mistressing is extremely larger than anyone can imagine.
It can range from the mild teasing to things that are best not mentioned as they are on the cusp of being taboo. I don’t want to get myself into trouble.
Hygiene is always a must with any toy
I will only talk with the clients that are interested in those type of fetishes.
The one topic of fascination that has been popular with my clients is ‘sounding’.
This is normally a medical practice that is performed to gently increase the urethra to take out any obstruction.
Many guys have found this to be an arousing stimulation (obviously not when they are with the doctor but when they are with their mistress).
It tests your will power and how long your hormones will keep you on the edge of climaxing, never tipping you until mistress says you can or lets you.
I am into the art of edging and sensing what your body is saying to me. How you react at every motion I make with the sounding implement. As it stroke the inside of your uretha with the tender loving care that it needs. Heightening your sensitivity with every millimeter it moves. Slipping and sliding with the lubricant will drive you crazy as you’ve never felt before
Electric Sounding Stimulation
I have added to my collection of sounding equipment over the years and just recently added some new rosebud implements.
The varieties come in all different lengths and shapes eg: straight, curved, bumpy (I’m using novice language so everyone understands what I mean).
They are all made for extra stimulation including the electric stimulation sounding plug.
So if you are interested in exploring your taboo side with me or even start because you haven’t tried anything like this before, contact me and we can talk further
I will look forward to conversing more with you about the kinky side of your fantasies……..
Tuesday 3rd December 2019
POSTMAS NO.3.
To anyone that is not into dressing up for fun, fancy dress or even role play this won’t mean anything to you. I’m sure we are all young at heart and in some way or form, there’s Fabulousness in us all.
When I became seriously into transformations my love for wigs grew stronger and stronger.
As being in the hairdressing industry for over 30 years now I have the skills to transform a ratty cheap wig into a styled and sculpted piece of artwork if I wish to.
Technicolored Unicorn Synthetic Wig
To change a blonde hairpiece into a multi-colored rainbow of unicorn colors is my dream but to find a human hair wig to my liking and something that is not astronomically priced is hard to find these days.
I have ordered many wigs that are advertised as human hair, only to find they are not when I receive them.
There is a new breed of wig in synthetic hair that is heat resistant that can still be curled and straightened but not colored. The texture is near enough the same but not quite, if you know what I mean.
I never knew there was a synthetic textured wig that is like human hair before but there is. I was fooled, unfortunately…many times.
Technology these days is trying to make wigs affordable in the best way they possibly can.
For me to color and create my art pieces it has to be human hair.
Human Hair Wig Transformation
As for now, until I find what I am looking for, I am having fun cutting and styling the rat looking wigs that arrive in a plastic bag to me. Then transforming them into reasonably looking hairpieces that are good enough to transform a guy into a female and use for photoshoots.
Some of them could be passable as the real thing if you were to be seen in public with them on until you look closer at them.
A lot of the synthetic wigs these days have lace frontals (lace from ear to ear at the forehead area)/360 frontals (360 means the whole circumference of your hairline) on them.
This is so it looks like your own hairline, It can be either placed on your head for temporary usage or gelled down if you are having different
positioned activities and don’t want your hairpiece to fall off or move.
All the others (well I can see the traces) have either bad workmanship on the tracks (hair that is sewn to the mesh cap that makes the wig) or the quality of the hair itself.
On a level 2 upwards (level one is total crap and not even a conditioning treatment will resurrect it from the state it arrives to me in) I can
work my magic and bring up to its shining glory.
I have 15 wigs of all shades, styles, and lengths and will continue to add to my collection as that is my hobby and a way of relaxation.
To see something go through the changes that i put it through is fascinating to me.
I love what I do in every way possible and that shows in my end results, so I’ve been told.
Mistress Having Some Dress-Up Fun
So if you fancy being transformed from the alpha male you love to be, into an attractive female (that you may well fancy yourself) let me know.
I can do the mildest of fetish play to just stockings to the makeup, wig and clothing and shoes.
It’s a fun way to join the session together by capturing the memories with a mini or full photoshoot afterward or during.
This doesn’t need to happen but my photography can be as discreet or not as you request it to be.
Many times the way I apply your make-up, wig ect no one will know it’s you. Shocking but amazing how you can be someone your not in everyday life.
If you would like the full transformation please let me know your measurements and shoe size so I can see what I have in my wonderful wardrobe of fantasy. If not then we can converse about what you would like and then I can arrange to have it delivered and ready for your arranged session.
I will look forward to receiving your inquiries whatever they may be.