Tuesday 17th December 2019

Postmas Blog NO.17.
I constantly have requested to buy used condoms off me. As the title quotes ‘Why Buy Used Condoms When New Ones Are Cheaper…….’
Which is very true. As I only state the obvious in many cases.

Now to me, a used condom is a condom that ha been taken out of the packet and used for whatever reason.

Used Condom?

I understand to the purchaser that they are expecting DNA in the condom and I say be very careful with anyone that will sell you someone’s DNA.

For one thing that is breaking the rules of client confidentiality and how do you know that the person who used that condom hasn’t got some underlying STD.

So if anyone wants to buy a used condom off of me then yes buy all means I will but it will not have DNA of any living being.

I value the client confidentiality rule far too much to give it away at all.

If you want what you’re expecting to be in the condom then ask and I can accommodate a sub meeting for you so that it comes straight from the consenting adult.

I will look forward to you contacting me and then we can converse about this more detail…

 

 

 

I take appointments all the time but when I have a truly wonderful appointment I can’t help but blog about it.

If the client prefers to be anonymous then that’s fine but today my client is fine for me to blog in full about our day.

Today started very early. 6 am to be exact. That’s when I woke and got myself ready for 7:30 am appointment.

Transformation Code Kathy

The reason it was so early is that we had so much to fit in. He is not from the midlands and its a 3-hour drive to me. So once a month he visits me. We have to fit in as much as we can.

He is one of my sissy maids that is truly loyal to his mistress. He has been with me for 13 months and in that time has transformed his body in a way that can be only shown to me gratitude towards me for being his mistress.

His torso has shrunk in a way that his maid’s outfit that he first came to me with now slips on very nicely. Without a puff and pant and holding the belly in physically with a corset.

He has lost a whopping 26 inches all over his body but mainly off his waist. Going from a 55-inch waist to 46 inches.

When I guide someone to help them improve their healthy eating lifestyle I also encourage them to do whatever exercise they enjoy doing.

Falsing someone to do something they don’t like will be a short-lived journey.

We started with some shopping for his new shirt and trousers for Christmas day. The jeans he was wearing were far too big for him now and really did make him look like a sack of potatoes (saying that in the nicest way). The belt that was holding him together was struggling and worn out.

Mistress Waiting Impatiently For her Coffee And Cake

He didn’t look scruffy, far from it but just needed the right size clothing to make him look and feel much confident in himself.

If you wear big and bag clothes it has a resemblance to how you hold yourself when you walk.

Trust me it works and true to my word as soon as he tried on the clothes the sparkle in his eye appeared.

When we go shopping like a true sissy maid he always walks 2-3 steps behind me.

Sometimes when I go to talk to him I forget he’s not at my side and it looks like I’m talking to myself. Quite funny really.

So after we looked for the clothes we went for a coffee at Costa. It was to perk us up as I don’t eat generally when I first wake but a few hours

Christmas Costa Coffee And Brownie

later my stomach needs that boost of energy to tide me over for a while.

As a good maid, he carried the tray over to me as I sat and waited impatiently for our order to be put together. When I’m in need of a pick me up I want it now and don’t want to wait.

I said to Kevan as we enjoyed your sugar infusion of a brownie “next time we come out for shopping you will be fully dressed as Kathy. No more Kevan carrying my bags. Always Kathy from now on.”

He looked at me in excitement but also in a nervous way as he has never been in public as Kathy.

When we got back to my house and after he had laid out my shopping on the kitchen island I told him to go upstairs to get undressed and sit in my barber’s chair where he was going to have a short hair cut as his own natural hair was too unruly to grow any further.

Comments were pasted at the day job that he needed to get it cut and smarted up, although it was a warehouse and he was not seen by the public.

Long Hair Is Not For Kevan

I agreed as really the thickness of his hair is difficult to flatten when putting on the balding cap for preparation of his maid’s wig.

We have tried different ways of under wig preparation. Some ways looked good but didn’t feel comfortable and others felt comfortable but showed when the wig was installed. Today we got it just right which made all the difference.

When her wig was put on it felt just like Kathy’s own hair than ever before.

That’s the beauty of the right way and wrong way of wig installing.

We also had a change with her make up. Many drag queens plaster the makeup on to hide 5 o’clock shadows and manly features but we weren’t trying to make her look completely different as she had beautiful natural features already.

So we put a minimal amount of foundation ect so it would enhance what she had already. Lovely eyes and poutable lips.

Calendar Girl December 2019

The worse thing about makeup if it’s too thick is when you itch your nose or check and it makes a mark in your flawless appearance.

When we had completed her hair and makeup we continued to her outfit.

Well…….This was a lovely shock to the situation. As I mentioned before, weight loss comes with many amazing benefits. Her old maids outfit for one.

Kathy, The Shy School Girl

She slipped it over her panties, no corset as I wanted to see how her waist reduction was looking naturally.

Even she was shocked at how much better it fitted. I said to her “See I promised you a transformation that you will be proud of and now you can see I am true to my word”

The photoshoot came out lovely as you can see. We had a few different outfits and I picked the best photos out to show you.

Kathy is a truly amazing person in herself. To stick to a healthier lifestyle has now paid off. Not just in self-confidence but in better fitting clothes that aren’t held up with braces.

If you would like a transformation like Kathy in a customized way for yourself contact me and we can converse further…..

 

 

 

15 Dec 2019
December 15, 2019

Breathe Control, Face Sitting and Smothering…

Sunday 15th December 2019

PostmasNO.15.
When a client inquires about Breath Control they nearly always ask about smothering and facesitting. To an experienced player in the BDSM world, they will understand that facesitting has nothing to do with a sexual act of oral.

I do ask if the client is good at underwater swimming. This shows that they can hold their breathe for a quiet a while.

Latex Smothering/Breathe Control

To perform a session of breathe control it’s not just sitting on their face and watching television.

Like any bespoke fetish, there is an art to it.

Smothering is also a form of breathe control but it is much more intense.

it is completely covering the head to make you feel totally intoxicated with the situation.

Feet Breath Control

It can be performed with any part of the body that will cover the nose or mouth or both.

In some extreme sessions, it can include the neck and airways. I have to be careful how I say this for acceptable wording but you know what I mean.

Everyone has their own particular way they like their fetishes to be performed.

The items of clothing can make a big difference also. EG: In a cotton shirt/skirt/trousers or jeans can very breathable but PVC or Latex is not.

So if you would like me to test your airways contact me and we can converse about this topic and more…

 

 

 

 

14 Dec 2019
December 14, 2019

Update on My BDSM Furniture….

Saturday 14th December 2019

Postmas NO.14.
Good morning everyone,
This is a bit of a different blog today as I’m a day behind even though this blog is dated yesterday.

Sorry, I did not update my blog when I had decided to pack up from upholstering my BDSM furniture last night/this morning but it was gone 2 am and I was very tired.

My brain has to be in blog mode to produce an interesting blog and when Mistress Lucy has a tired mind is not an interesting mind.

I started at 12noon and (still not quite finished now) worked on it until the early hours of the morning. I’m a perfectionist (to best of my ability), that’s why it takes me so long and also upholstering, is not my profession.

So for those who have been following my blogs even before December, your know that I have been looking for a carpenter to make me a spanking bench of which I was hoping for a customized one so that I could have it just the way I want it.

Time after time people who were so-called carpenters would contact me and say “Yes sure I can do that for you” and in the end fail to produce.

I think I had roughly 8 carpenters that were complete fails.

In business, if you do a good job then your client ( hence myself) will advertise your good name and then you will get more work.

People don’t seem to think this way. Still, I didn’t get exactly what I have wanted but it will look just as good and will do the job that I want very well.

One day I was looking on eBay at some other things and came across this advertisement for a carpenters bench. Very chunky and not really what I was looking for, so dismissed it.

As a few days passed I was still looking for a bench but everything looked commercialized.

Anyone that knows me knows that I am not commercialized and like to be uniquely different.

Kneeling Stool/Coffee Table

I went through my checklist of what I was expecting my ideal bench to perform for me and funny enough this bench ticked all my boxes.

The things I wanted for my bench were the following:

  • To be able to take any size and weight of person I have for any appointment.
  •  So that I have one piece of furniture to accommodate my BDSM and Massage clients.
  • If I wanted to have attachments to it I could EG: Gyno supports, Stocks, St Andrews Cross (but my version), etc…
  • If I wanted to have a cage underneath the table part then I could.

When having a piece of furniture made out of wood it is very versatile to do as I please with it.

Although metal is great and it really looks the part all I can do is hang things off of it and attach this to it (as I do not have welding skills) but I feel that it is not as sturdy as a solid wood frame.

To have anything like A St Andrews Cross or Stocks etc attached with wood I can attach with sturdy bolts and take off if I require.

I do like to put my own twist on things on many occasions.

So as you can see from the images I have attached to this blog the end result I like Is unique but clean cut.

Sometimes when having so much equipment it is difficult to be clean-cut in the design of my entertainment room but in my furniture, I will be this way.

Having many pieces of furniture will clutter up the floor space. Being compact will give more space to move around in.

I use my entertainment room as a photographic studio also. With backdrops for the male to female transformational photos as well as other things.

So I hope you enjoyed this update and when I have received the next delivery of spray glue I can start on the larger bench.

As the bench I did yesterday is the kneeling stool to the spanking part of the bench.

Big and bulky is the best type of multi-use furniture so it can take anything I want to do on it.

So do contact me and we can converse more. I will be looking forward to receiving your inquiries on any service that I offer……

 

 

13 Dec 2019
December 13, 2019

Uniforms Of Stature…..

Friday 13th December 2019

Postmas NO.13.
When anyone looks at a person in uniform it shows that they admire the authority that they could put upon you.
It depends on the type of uniform as to how much authority they have but a female in uniform shows a different type of authority.
Female supremacy is the correct title she is worthy of.

WRAC Original Uniform – Do As I Say Or Else….

The power has to be within her otherwise she will blend into the surroundings and no one will take a blind bit of notice.

She must stand proud of your sexuality as a woman, a proud powerful woman that if she wishes she could have any man at her beck and call.

To do what she wants him to do when she wants him to do it. He would/could be her sub, slave, and servant and he will love to do anything she wishes of him.

Now a uniform doesn’t have to be anything of recognition. It could be just the way she decides to put her attire together.

A Practitioner To Inspect Your Health

Too many media minds think heels are the top desire to see a woman in to look powerful but this is not always the case.

If a dominate female ozzes power within herself then she could be in leisurewear and trainers and the sub will still kneel at her feet and worship her because he is assured of her power and stature by the way she controls him.

Any mistress of recognition would not be in leisurewear and trainers if not at the gym. These garments have a time and place to worn and its not within session time.

If you like a powerful female in uniform contact me and we can converse some more….