Friday 27th December
Daily Blog NO.27.
Branding…What is it and why do it? This can be performed in many different ways and for many different reasons.
It can be done through physical action EG: a shown tattoo/invisible tattoo or a burn mark/mental branding.
Temporary Branding
It all depends on the personal situation the branded is in.
When it comes to being owned by the mistress you show undying loyalty to, you both have to come to an understanding which is going to be convenient for both of you.
If the branded is in a relationship then a visible tattoo is not going to work. Yet a temporary/invisible tattoo or a mental branding will work.
A temporary tattoo is drawn on with lipstick, lipliner or eyebrow pencil can easily be wiped off with a wet wipe at the end of the session.
An invisible tattoo is permanently drawn on in white or light ink in a place that is not visible on a regular place. If you were to have it on your arm and although it is not visible without a tan when you go on holiday and catch some colour in a hot country then it may show up more than you imagine it to.
Mental branding is a verbal agreement that is not legal but stays between the mistress and sub.
No one is marked in any way but your mistress will say things to you that if you do not do as you are told there will be consequences.
To some of the more extremists a burn brand or a visible tattoo with an appropriate image that signifies your bond between the mistress and sub can be very possible.
I have also seen examples of piecings as a brand. You have to be very true to your loyal choice to have this done as this is more painful than a tattoo.
There are many more extreme ways to brand your body but to extreme for me to mention.
Think before you act on any of these things as once done they will physically or mentally scare you if taken away…
Thursday 26th December 2019
Daily Blog NO.26.
As I sit here eating my overnight oats with my laptop in front of me and the back door open as it is so warm for this time of year (8 degrees) I wonder…What is a Traditional Christmas?
We only take someone’s word for saying what it should/would/could be like. We do not all have a traditional family like the media say we have.
Overnight Oats, Yummy
I personally think Christmas day and every day should be just how we want it to be…and I do.
As like anyone knows that has visited me I have 6 cats. They are like my children as I don’t have any of my own.
They are very well behaved and mainly go out but I put them out when I have guests/clients.
It was just me and the cats yesterday. I’m not saying this to feel down as I’m totally the opposite. I really enjoy my own company. I can do as I please when I please.
Yes, Christmas is a time for families when you want to be around them. I don’t, as for personal reasons I choose not to be.
I find it is a time for catching up on jobs around the house and online correspondence that I haven’t had time for when taking appointments.
I went to Tescos and got my goodies on Christmas eve eve that I enjoy and nibbled on them in moderation throughout the festive time.
Festive Treats
Why people buy their food for Christmas day as if its going out of fashion I don’t know. The shops are only closed for 1 day.
They were fighting over the rotten birds (apparently Tescos, Aldi, Lidls and Morrison’s poultry were rotten and smelling when people opened the plastic packaging to cook them for their dinner. Ruined Christmas they were saying but if they had a vegan Christmas dinner they wouldn’t have that problem. Tradition again, just like sheep following what should be).
It was as if they were feeding the 5000 the amount they were had in their trolleys. I had to laugh as I pondered around the isles with my basket for one.
Mince pies are my weakness, no they weren’t vegan but as I say I am 80%ish vegan and now was a time to treat myself to what I felt I would like.
I have learnt to eat in moderation. For one thing, my taste buds are more sensitive to highly flavoured products (as I mentioned in a previous blog). As before I could quite easily polish off the whole 12 mini mince pies. Now I can only have 3 at a time.
For those who do have a sweet tooth not to worry I have many corsets in different sizes so I’m sure I can lace you up and make you look 3 sizes smaller. No promise but I will try.
Although it is supposed to be 12 days before and after Christmas your meant to have your tree and decorations up (as I say I’m not a traditionalist) I have taken mine down already.
I do like Christmas but if you overload on decorations it looks so bare when you take it down.
I was very minimalistic with a few lights dotted around the house for the atmosphere of festivity and a small real tree in my cloakroom.
It was enough to not make the house feel naked when everything is taken down…
Boxing Day… Why is this day called so?
Grab It While Its There…
Well, I like the meaning of it this day. It has an appropriate meaning for me. As Google mentions ‘Traditionally, it is a day off for servants. They would receive their gift boxes from their Masters but in my case Mistress.
So to all of you servants, I am going to give you a £50 voucher.
This can be used on 90-minute (normally £150) or longer visiting appointment
OR
40 minute or longer Skype or Whatsapp Video Call.
It does not apply in conjunction with any other offer I have in place.
It starts on 27th December and expires on 31st December (which is the last day you can use it).
Please mention this offer when Contacting Me about a booking.
Quick now, you don’t want to miss it out…
Wednesday 25th December
Postmas Blog NO.25.
Well, these last 24 days of Postmas Blogs have been very interesting I must say. Its has shown me what I actually do as a Mistress is more of an art than just laying my hands to massage, pulling on a pair of latex gloves to investigate your anal canal and caning a bare bottom with a few strikes of my wrist.
To be a Mistress it takes the experience of a certain aged female who’s been in this industry for many years for a sub/slave to take any notice of and respect highly.
Christmas Day Surprise
So I am going to make this a daily Blog from now on so you can get to know me better and read how my mind works and why.
It will be good for regular friends and clients to up to date with my going on. Also, potential clients and admirers to read a little about me from afar before making the decision to contact me.
As I know a lot of you are far away from me and are unable to visit Northampton where I am based.
Most of all I really enjoy putting my experience down for you all to read.
From the feedback, I have received so far you have said that you look forward to my daily blogs and seeing what topic I will choose for that day to talk about.
I like being spontaneous and keeping you on your toes. I will never be predictable. So you will never know what I am going to blog about next unless it is a request from one of you.
So here’s to many more blogs of interesting kinky and fetish-like topics.
Hope you’ve had a great day my little subs and slaves and you got all you deserve. Whatever it is, naughty or nice.
The surprise is the enjoyment…
Tuesday 24th December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.24.
Well, girls and boys its that time of year to whether you have been good or bad but in Mistress Lucy’s eyes good is being bad in a kinky type of way.
As you have been reading all my Postmas Blogs and have got an insight into how Mistress Lucy’s mind really works.
I am a human being like everyone else but living the Mistress life full time for 10 years changes the way I look at things completely.
May 2011
Emotions for one thing. My heart has become tougher in the way that I don’t hurt easily. Thick-skinned I think the saying goes.
I used to be very sensitive and take a lot of things to heart if someone was to call me nasty names ect
Now I don’t think anything of it. Maybe it’s the change of eating etc that I started 19 months ago.
They say it takes time for anything to happen when change occurs. Finally, my body loves the skin it’s living in.
Shame its taken 47 years but that’s life sometimes.
July 2017
I definitely think that has to be something to think about… ‘Being happy in your own skin’.
It’s like the foundation of a building. If that is not secure enough then the whole house when built is not going to last very long.
It’s the same with life. If you don’t love yourself then no one else will. I am saying that on a happy note because it is perfectly true.
What I am about to talk about is not a lecture, far from it but just my experience and how it has made me feel 100% better.
So even if you do one thing to change yourself for the better then that’s better than not making the effort at all.
So these are the steps I try to abide by to keep me healthy/healthier:
1. Eat A Healthy Food Plan Every Day –
Oct 2018,
I try my best to do this every day but we all waver every now and again. What is satisfactory to one person is not to the next. We are all built differently.
I eat 2 meals a day. Overnight oats when I wake at whatever time that is in the morning (as it differs from day to day). Then a hot meal around 5-6 pm as any later plays havoc with my digestion system.
I have learnt what I can eat at different times of the day and night if I get the munchies. If I don’t stick to these rules, I know it for sure.
2. Eliminate Un-Natural Bad Foods –
Febuary 2019
I have stopped all red and white meat from my food plan. Yes, we are carnivores (so the topic of conversation would agree to disagree) but some peoples insides find it hard to digest it more than others.
I have very little fish and diary (maybe cheese every now and again but not often).
I have found my taste buds have got better and every taste is much sweeter and sharper without dairy that was coating my tongue and masking the true flavours.
I am more plant-based than I have ever been in my life. I get a lot of my vitamins from fruit salad and vegetables.
I do not have a cooker or microwave. The only electrical appliances I have in my kitchen are a kettle, blender, fridge and a washing machine.
I have soya juice (I call it juice because it’s not milk as we all recognise it to be) instead of milk on my porridge (I’ve tried water but I have to put extra flavour in with it eg: sugar etc and I don’t like the taste).
April 2019
I cut up 1 x mango, 1 x banana and squeeze 4 x oranges and put it all in the flask blender. Pure natural juice to keep me going throughout the day, yummy natural sugar.
I have peppermint tea as a hot drink although it’s nice hot. warm or cold and water when I feel like it.
My downfall is sugar in my peppermint tea which I know its wrong but it’s nice. I don’t have many sins in food and that’s one of them.
If I fancy a naughty treat I don’t deny myself of it but I don’t need much of it as I did before.
3. Cut Out All Pills And Potions – (only if they are hindering you)
May 2019
I say I did this is because I was on the pill for 15 years or more. The reason I started taking it (skin issues and contraception) isn’t the reason why I was taking it now. My skin is clear from eating natural products and I am celibate by choice.
Being an old-school mistress does affect your mindset when it comes to an active lifestyle.
So I decided it was hindering my lifestyle (unwanted chemicals) more than benefiting it. I stopped it cold turkey as they say.
I didn’t have any side effects like some women do (dry skin, tiredness, depressed). Within 1 month I notice some amazing bonuses to my whole being.
No mood swings and emotional ups and downs (not that there were many but I had to train myself to control them when they occurred).
Ladies problems were a breeze but you don’t need to know about that.
Fewer migraines (I did suffer with them on a regular basis, that would knock me for six when they did occur) and a totally chemical-free lifestyle.
4. Exercise – (is not my strong point but I’m working on it)
September 2019
Yes, it is best to do as much exercise as your happy with but I cut it out completely when I started this change. Basically to see how I would feel and what it would do to my mind.
I used to be a gym bunny years ago. So going from every day to not at all was a big leap for me. Over time I did miss it but my lifestyle was busy so I didn’t miss it in terms of I need to fit it in.
The days would go by so quickly and before I knew it I was clearing up my workspace and getting ready to sit down for my 2nd meal of the day.
As in myself, I feel that I need to do something for a feel-good factor but not for a major exercise routine that’s going to change my shape completely.
As I say I’m happy in my own skin the way I am.
Over time it may change my shape a bit but that will be without putting major effort into it. Whos to know when and if I have the time my mind may change direction.
5.Meditation and crystals –
18th December 2019
Now don’t worry, I’m not going into this topic too deeply as I know its not everyone’s cup of tea.
I’ve only mentioned this because it has helped me in my personal and appointments life a great deal.
To relax and know how to relax in the art of meditation is a must. This has helped me immensely.
I am no reiki therapist or spiritualist but the advice I have been given on this topic has changed my way of thinking a lot.
These 5 rules I have tried to stand by have as I say changed my life in such a short amount of time.
This is why I have mentioned that loving yourself is so very important. We only have only life so don’t waste it.
Conclusion Of My Life-Changing Journey…
20th December 2019
Throughout this part of my life, yes I may not be as toned and trim as I was when I was full-on at the gym but I feel happier and healthier in myself more than I have ever been.
If you want to change then do it for yourself and no one else. Your the only one that can make that change
If you would like to know more about turning you’re life around and loving yourself the right way then contact me and we can converse more.
If not then no worries and thank you for taking the time to read and hopefully enjoy this Christmas Eve Postmas Blog and maybe your find another topic to contact me about.
Monday 23rd December 2019
Postmas Blog NO.23.
As I sit here in my office at home with my array of Christmas goodies on my side plate and my vegan oat coffee I look over my emails and come across this particular one which basically asks ‘How serious are you about your career in Mistressing?’
I was a little shocked by this question as I was briefing over my emails, not fully taking anything in seriously as they were mostly junk mail from companies trying to sell me something.
Festive Treats
So had to double back on the email and read it through again.
They wanted to know how I can take it seriously as its pathetic how men dress as women etc… “Oh dear,” I said to myself as I could see I would need to blog about this topic to put things straight with anyone else that thought this.
So just to clear this up once and for all so everyone knows what I am all about.
I am a down to earth person that doesn’t take any crap from no one but on the other hand, I am trustworthy and never judge a human being whatever their colour, creed, age or appearance.
Now if you are disrespectful to me in a very disrespectful way then that’s a different matter. My punishment to you will be personal because you have chosen it to be that way, not me.
If a guy has a fetish of dressing in silky knickers and stockings or wants to have a full transformation I will be very serious and embrace his fetish the way he requests.
Transformation Fun
Unlike some Mistresses who will take your money, titivate with you and then send you on your way on the dot when your time is up.
I am completely different…As I could make a lot more money than I do but then I would then be in the category of a conveyor belt mistress, which I definitely am not.
I concentrate on quality over quantity. I prefer to get to know you first then I am able to give you much more of a customized service.
Sorry for sounding so formal but this is the only way I know how to explain this to you without sounding shabby if you know what I mean.
I have taken many on journeys of transformations in many different fetishes. Doesn’t matter to me how mild or extreme you are, you are all welcome.
I do like to stick to one ruling though and that is my age preference of over 35 years old.
I Couldn’t Be Any More Serious About My Career If I Tried…..
The reason being is that younger guys in my experience don’t take the fetish world seriously. To them, if they are paying for a service it has to include a partially naked or naked mistress that will perform personal services with them or to them during the time that they have booked.
I am not that type of Mistress. I turn away at least 3-4 or more phone calls or texts a day because of this.
For the amount of polite and pleasant potential and regular clients I receive, overrules the young pathetic inquiries.
As we say in the industry “It comes with the job” which is very true…
If you would like to a customized journey with a genuine, non-judgemental and down to earth mistress then i would love for you to contact me in your own convenient time.
If it is out of my hours then please email me and I will pick up my correspondence at the nearest possible time.