Monday 17th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.79.
What is the attraction of doing things in the public eye? When we are carrying on with our regular lives and something happens that makes people that we don’t know stop and stare the adrenaline rush hits our nervous system in such a way that to certain individuals is a sexual excitement rush.
To be humiliated in the middle of a busy shopping area or crowded pub is the most popular choice because you are guaranteed lots of onlookers. Even though it may be staged the best way of getting an instant reaction is acting it out as if it was performed without being forced to do it.
Exhibitionism can be recognized in many ways but you do have to be careful what you do and where you do it to save getting arrested for indecent exposure if you know what I mean.
It can be as innocent as just having a heated conversation with a friend or partner to get your sexual fix or the endorphin rush or as risky as having intercourse in a very public place. As I mentioned before be careful about this one as exposing sexual parts can cause you to offend onlookers or even get the authorities involved…
If you are into the topic of this daily blog then contact me and we can converse more on the subject. I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…
Sunday 16th February 2020
Daily Blog No.78.
We all like to be tied up in playtime in one way or another. Whether it be with a silk scarf or metal handcuffs but when it comes down to rope this is a different art form altogether.
16/02/20 – Bright Red Rope Ankle Gauntlet
The Japenese art form, Shabari has developed as far back as the year 1400. It was commonly known as Hojo-Jutsu or Kinbaku (meaning light binding) which the police would use to restrain prisoners just like the modern handcuffs that are used nowadays.
Whereas some like to be heavily restricted or lightly restrained Shabari is effective and can be very beautiful if tied in certain ways. In time with practice, it can be very enjoyable once learnt how to manipulate a length of rope around your slave/partner.
16/02/20 – Twisted rope Body Brace
To drape the tightly woven silk/cotton plait around their limbs in such a way that enhances their limbs to look fascinating to the eye is a skill in itself. Whether you suspend them or tie them into a position that is a benefit to yourself it is fun in every way.
Multi-colored rope in different textures can add excitement to the visual outcome in so many different ways but do take into consideration of the person’s skin and allergic reactions. Pain is fun in some ways but not all.
If you would like a session on this topic contact me but please take into consideration that I have the only just started in the past year learning this art form. I am not yet at the Square knot corset/spiders web or dragonfly stage yet all though they are very beautiful and will be there asap as soon as I get spare time in my busy schedule to practice.
As they say ‘Practice makes perfect…
Saturday 15th February 2020
Daily Blog NO. 77.
Punishment hurts in so many different ways, you are having it performed on you because you have done something wrong.
Many like to have this one to them to give them pain because it’s their fetish, kink, turn on.
The punishment all depends on the wrongdoing they have done. We are not talking about crime but a milder version. Although if people that had done something drastically wrong came to a mistress and not wasted taxpayers’ money by going to court etc it would teach a lot of people not to do it again.
The punishment, in that case, would be bounded and gaged corporal punishment to the highest level on whatever part of the body that committed the crime.
Your Choice…
For example, rapists then 500 thrashes on their member of the hardest strokes, Stealing then (depending on the offense) 50 to 1000 strokes to the palms of both the hands. Injury by kicking, 200 or more thrashes to the soles of the feet.
You may think that the rapist should get more thrashes but if you have ever been thrashed or hit on the member then you know even 10 thrashes is painful enough.
The punishment is worse when the individual is tied up and restricted, which they should be as I can imagine that they wouldn’t want this to happen to them on this level even in a kinky session.
The choice is a prison sentence or a trashing of excruciating pain for 30 minutes plus on the body part that did the crime.
The person who will perform the punishment will be the person (or a close relative of the person if death or disablement takes place) who had the crime committed on or against them.
Brutal but justifyingly satisfying I think.
Pain, as I have mentioned before in a previous blog, can be satisfying if you come to a mistress for pleasurable BDSM etc…
I have asked many of my extreme clients why they like the pain to such an extreme level They have replied, to bring back memories and to help them go deep into their subspace where extreme pain can only take them…
If you would like a role-play scenario then contact me and we can converse more on the subject.
I will look forward to receiving your inquiries…
Friday 14th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.76.
We are all born with a certain amount of hair all over our bodies. Then as we get older it grows to what our bodies require it to.
A lot of the time women are battling their body hair as the media says females should be hair free and smooth…but who makes this ruling?
A few years ago Julia Roberts gave up shave, waxing or whatever she did to her armpits and wore a red sleeveless dress to the Notting Hill Premier opening in 1999.
She is mostly known for her acting career but also this moment in history. I typed into google, actress with hairy armpits and Julia Roberts was first on the list.
A hairy bottom on a sissy is not acceptable to the male eye
Why is society so against hairy females? It is a very natural thing that happens to us all so why do a good percentage of us dislike it on a woman and in general.
I’m a hairdresser (if you hadn’t realized already lol) I love controlling, styling and manipulating it on the head but I am not a fan of it on my body.
I will in the winter grow it a bit when it gets to a certain length it feels unclean (even though I shower 1-2 times a day) to be clear of it completely feels much more hygenic.
This is why I say to a good majority of my clients. Male grooming is a common thing these days. To be completely waxed/shaved or partially waxed/shaved is up to the individual.
Say example you drop something that you’re eating on your chest hair if you are sitting there shirtless or shirt open. To clean up a substance is much harder to do in a hairy area than a trimmed or hair-free area.
A hairy chest is acceptable if you like that sort of thing
Also the same in your manly area. Another reason also if you are looking to extend length (individual personal preference only) then trimming back the bush adds instant length.
Being that this is valentines day I should have mentioned this a couple of blogs ago so you be ready to woo your partner/date with a couple of extra inches (even though you had that hidden away in the bush that you were keeping for many years lol).
It is not down to me to say what you should and shouldn’t do but anyone that goes commando will understand that catching your pubic hair in a zipper can be very eye-watering painful (unlike the film ‘Something about Mary’, scrotum skin caught in the zipper) hilarious film but even I cringed at that moment and I don’t have a scrotum (well I didn’t the last time I looked lol)
So although hair is there for a reason (to keep germs out of orifices) personal preference is always a must to feel comfortable with yourself.
If you are requiring a body grooming session contact me and we can converse more on the topic.
I will look forward to hearing from all you neanderthal men or very hairy women lol
Thursday13th February 2020
Daily Blog NO.75.
What people like is not always the same. Just like why should everyone go with the flow of how everyone else looks.
I love to be different. Different is perfect to me. I don’t like being the center of attention but just to be me and be who I am comfortable with is the ideal way we should all be like.
As you have noticed I have been having a journey with my hair and what I like it to look like lately.
Since I have been old enough to be able to decide on my own look of the style I have always had a different hairstyle every hair cut.
Hair is the sign of being healthy,i have choose to cut mine because it grows to fast
Since I have been in the adult industry I have been much bolder with my hair or lack of it.
I have been a bit sheepish about going too short because of my age but age is just a number and I really don’t feel like my age, far from it. So what the heck lol
At the weekend, I took the top to a no.2 and the sides to a 1/2 blend. I have been looking at it for the last couple of days thinking “why am I not happy with it? There’s something that doesn’t look quite right.”
So today I contacted a friend as I couldn’t do what I wanted to be done and he could. I said to him when he turned up “just shave it all off completely. I have a well-shaped head and no scars so it will look great” so he did.
Wowee… it’s fantastic, A bit chilly in this weather but I can wear a hat for now and I have a white scalp (i will have to go on the sunbed a bit more to get it tanned lol)
I understand its not everyone’s cup of tea but I can wear wigs of all colors and styles.
I have shaved my hair off for the fetish look for my fetish photography and videos. The Images have come out amazing…
So if you like my new look or don’t then do please let me know as I appreciate feedback in all aspects.
Look forward to hearing from you…