Monday 7th December 2020
Blog No.125.
Now for the clients that have known me for all of my mistress career or longer would know about my dream of having my own Barbers/hairdressers.
04/12/20 Mistress Lucy’s Fetish Barbers
I would of mentioned how my ideas would of got me shut down by the authorities before it was open day.
Reason being that my ideas would be and never are regular ideas for a high street shop.
For as long as i could remember i have always had a kinky mind in one way or another and putting my career and fetish together seems a blooming good idea to me.
This past year has brought nothing but heart ache and sorrow to a lot of people. It has also given us lots of time to think ‘what does the future hold for us?’
We have all had to change our 5 and 10 year plans and also our retirement. I say that because I’ve just turn 48 years old last month (November), so now is a good time to think about it.
Its time to think out of the box and about what will stand you in good stead for the long haul instead of what is a regular type of job that will help you out just for now.
Just for now jobs wont care about you when there’s continuous lockdowns or another major recession. Businesses are running out of money to keep paying their employees and the government are wearing thin on spare funds.
So to think outside the box and working for yourself (self employment) means going out of your uncomfortable zone and maybe doing something that is unlike you.
You never know until you try…
I’m not saying to do something wrong but something that has longevity and will bring you in a regular income how ever small or big.
Regular income is a must to keep our heads above water and the arrears people from sending constant reminders through your letter box.
Unemployment wouldn’t be so high if this is how everyone thought.
At one point i thought my top floor studio was working great for me with such a large open area and plenty of space to do as i please but i was finding that my appointments were swaying more to certain fetishes than others.
When national lockdown was talked about i decided to make use of my second self employment fund and divide the area up into sections that would work much better for my appointments and enable me to expand in what i could do.
Before, i had many a idea run through my head but the pandemic had always put road blocks in my way to complete and make it work.
04/12/20 Mistress Lucy’s Fetish Barbers
So with the spare time i felt it was a perfect to put my plan into action.
To many females the thought of picking up an electrical chop or circular saw to do some wall building would sound like to much of nail breaking work for them, not to me. I keep my nails short for that reason.
When all my renovation’s are finished then i will go back to painted long nails…maybe.
It wasn’t that hard work really and plus i enjoy it.
As the days and weeks passed and i could see the project coming together. It was very heart warming to know that i was getting closer to my dream then ever before.
To a normal person, what is normal these days? to say about the world of hairdressing fetishes they would not understand but to a hairdressing kinster you could say what ever you liked to them about the fetish and they would understand completely.
Clippers to setting rollers or capes to hairdressers outfit it all triggers off a emotion.
You see fetish is an understanding of anything that makes you feel something.
- F… Feeling
- E… Emotion
- T… Tantalise
- I… Imagine
- S…Seduce
- H… Happy
All of the above are all in the 6 senses we all have. So don’t knock anyone that likes a particular fetish.
04/12/20 Mistress Lucy’s Fetish Barbers
We are all different in our own way which makes us unique in our own little world.
So when and if you do come to Mistress Lucy’s Fetish Barbers don’t be afraid of letting loose your fetish and telling me (as long as it does not include personal services).
As you never know i may be the only mistress your feel comfortable with.
My Barbers Studio includes all the regular type of equipment but if you have a particular fetish for something out of the ordinary then do please say and i will do my best to accommodate.
Well i have briefly mentioned to you about my exciting salon but if you do have anything else to ask don’t hesitate to contact me and we can converse some more.
Stay health and safe and I will look forward to receiving your inquiries when you ready.
Monday 9th November
Blog No.124.
To become the very best you can be is not possible alone. We all need help in one way or another. Starting from the beginning can be like running on the spot if you don’t have the correct knowledge.
I did start on my own as I really didn’t think that I would be were I am today, 11 years on. It took me a while to realise that mistressing was my chosen vocation and that it would take over my life as it has.
Many people, when starting to dip their toe into the industry don’t know whether they will like it or not. They hear about it from a friend or see something on the internet and think it takes a freaky type of person to delve into the dark side of the imagination. Depends on how deep your prepared to go as to what your comfortable and willing to open yourself to. There is many mild and extreme fetishes but not all is everyone’s cup of tea.
May 2017
To the normal person (what is normal these days) a job in the adult industry is not a proper job. How wrong they are. It is much more than a full time job, it is a job that will take over you whole being as a person and in return it will give you the life you once dreamed of. Freedom to do as you please, when you please and charge how much you want to for anything you do.
To apply for this dream job you have to have a certain type of mind set other wise you will be eaten up by the different type of savoury/unsavoury people that are in this industry. The unsavoury individuals are the ones that are jealous of your success or frightened of you because of what you will dominate them to do by manipulating their imagination to what they really deep down like but are hesitant to expose it to anyone else but themselves. There are also very nice people in this fun filled fetish world. People that want to help and see you blossom into a amazing mistress etc.
I was happy plodding along doing my own thing for quiet a few years. I developed my skills of various different fetishes to entertain my own imagination as well as my clients of all walks of life. I grew to understand the moto to the saying ‘ Never judge a book by its cover’. When I accepted this I met and got to know a lot of fabulous people that helped me progress in my journey of freedom. I say freedom because this is the life i am living now. Maybe not right now (pandemic national lockdown) but now as in i have piece of mind that i have grown a client list that will be loyal to me and be with me through good and tough times. I don’t really call these type of clients, clients as they know me much better than a regular client. They are very much friends, They have allowed themselves, visa versa to become deeper into the mistress relationship than as if they just wanted a one off BDSM session with just any mistress.
This also is the same for web designers, social media influencers or business/project assistants. To give me what I want and need for my business they have to get to know the real me which is much deeper than Mistress Lucy.
For example….
To find a great or even excellent website designer is trial and error. There are many out there preaching that they have a portfolio of what fancy website designs they do. Charge high end prices but lack the customer service skills that gain the trust of the quality client.
As we all know, firstly finding a quality client is hard enough in any business but keeping them is easy when you know how. I had been looking for a web designer for a good few years. I had got to a stage in my career where i need to go to that next level and being on social media wasn’t enough. To be looked at as a profession mistress I needed to exhibit what I could and can do in a professional format that clients could see for themselves. Asking questions over phone calls and emails was all well and good but to be on the serious mistress websites I had to have my own website with my name in the domain name.
So my friend was looking on a site one day (as you do) and he came across 2-3 websites of mistresses that where offering similar services to myself. He said in passing conversation that I should check them out and investigate if I could have a website similar to theirs. The websites looked fantastic but there was one that really stood out to me but i thought that it looked far to expensive for me.
I contacted all 3 mistresses and enquired about where they had got their professional looking websites from and the pricing. I didn’t get any reply’s from them but in the time I was waiting I noticed at the bottom the first page of the website business name and details. My friend also pointed that out in a later conversation. I contacted the web designers with all the same details, what I wanted and the price and how I would go about getting my name on the web address. They all came back with different prices and time scales. As I was mentioning before about customer service, I don’t know these people so I have to go with the inclination I’m getting when they reply to me.
The first was far to expensive for what I could afford at the time and it was an abroad business. I’m not against abroad but you hear of so many scams from oversea countries.
The second was a bit slap dash with his etiquette and that gave me a unprofessional image of the business even though the website i was guided to looked very professional.
The third replied to me with a very friendly approach, professional but very polite. I think if i remember rightly, his email was brief but said its best to chat on the phone first of all and he can explain things better. I was very naïve when it came to technology so i had to start from somewhere. My phone was my life line to my clients and nothing else. We spoke that same evening and Peter was a very pleasant guy to talk to. Not to techi or immature with his explanations but just enough for me to understand the basics.
Nov 2020
2-3 years on from that conversation we are very good friends and as you can see, he has built and kept running a fine specimen of a fabulous website. Many think building and running a website is easy but listen to me now… there is more than you see to run any website let alone a professional website. Behind the scenes is security walls and protection from hackers and lots of other things that not even I would know about.
So I would highly recommend Peter @ Elite UK Mistress. Recommendations are better than cold searching sites your not familiar with. He is very good on design of all types of websites (not just mistress websites), upkeep and price. He has been in I.T and computers for many years.
You can see his website by clicking this link www.eliteukmistresses.co.uk or contact his email on info@elitemistresses.co.uk and he will discuss with you all you needs to help you build your business the way you would like it to be.
I am extremely happy with Peters services and how he has help my business grow over the years.
Your a star sweetie and very much worth your weight in good a much more. Keep up the good work…
Friday 16th October 2020
Blog No.123
To all who have been following my journey through the years, you would of seen my website progression and what a fabulous success it has been. I’m not a film star yet lol but I’m happy what it has given me.
My web designer Peter is a master at his trade and without his help I would not of got this far, thank you Peter your a star.
I think I mentioned a couple or months ago that I am now looking at starting a membership website because this one has restrictions on what I can post in my photography galleries due to no login page.
Every website has rules and limitations granted but at least if you have to login then you have to be of a certain age to do so etc then that will give me a free reign to an extent to post more interesting content.
Also I’m hoping to be able to post videos as well as photos for a small charge. As I am fed up having to cut the costs with other websites and ending up with hardly anything for all the work I put into it.
This is something I will converse with peter about but I’m sure it is possible in one way or the other.
Something else I want to mention…
I am not going to go on about this too much as I know everyone is getting tired of what is going on in the world right now but unfortunately it is ruling our lives. More than what we ever wanted.
As from today I have decided I will not be taking physical meeting appointments for the time being. I have had to cancel 3/4 of my appointments this month.
Either because the pandemic has hit their work and they are frightened of contracting and spreading it or the 3 tier/lockdown has forced them to stay away.
The main thing is, I have kept healthy and virus free all this year and I intend to stay that way. So if I have to put appointments on hold for now then I’m afraid that’s what I will do.
I am still available for phone chat and video calls on WhatsApp and skype if you wish but not to meet.
Do contact me either through text/call or email. All the details are on my Contact Page EG: phone number and link direct to my email address.
“Oh this dam world, its like a rollercoaster ride that I just want to get off of but cant”.
Take care sweeties and stay as healthy as you possibly can.
Hope to hear from you soon 😷
Thursday 15th October 2020
Blog No. 122
Corsets have always been top priority in my likes list when it comes to outfits and dressing up. All shape changing attire feels fantastic, hugging the body in all ways possible and making you look like you would only dream about.
The most fabulous thing about them is that they can draw you in at least 3 inches or more on your waist but the only negative thing about them is getting into them.
Its not like a loose fitting t-shirt that slips on very quick and easy. Its more like a 2 person job.
Emerald Stain Heavily Boned Corset
When admiring a statuesque female in a corset, the onlooker normally admires what he can see but never admires her for the before hand task of putting it on.
To get a perfect shape there should be a particular position you should stand in so your maid can pull those laces in to perfection. Making sure each lace is set just right and the underlaying piece of material under the laces is flat enough to join both sides of the corset together.
If it doesn’t and there is a gap then the corset is the wrong size.
When it comes to my appointments it can be difficult to have all the sizes and colours of the corsets in stock for all my clients. So I have to compromise on the clients shape and what garment is chosen.
Corsets can be made in all different materials, anything from latex to lace. I have grown to love satin corsets which helped me make my mind up into purchasing the emerald green satin corset (that you see me wearing in the photo).
I have had corsets from this company before and they are very well made and very hard wearing. They need to be heavy duty really as when your laced into the garment the laces are pulled in very tight around your waist/rib cage and the strain on the eye holes and hook fasteners is immense. It has to be to get that fantastic hour glass shape.
Look fantastic with an Blouse or on its own
We are not all built to a size 0 but not to worry because corsets are also made for the fuller figure, whether it be male or female you will be happy with the shape that it gives you.
Only with the right size corset will it feel like a second skin. If the wrong size is fitted it can feel uncomfortable in a way that you just want it off sooner than later. Also an ill fitting corset it can make your outline look horrendous.
When the bones of the corset draw your waist in the excess flesh has to go somewhere. In most cases it will give you more of a bust than you thought you could ever have, even on a guy.
This is what I was mentioning about a wrong corset size. If you are in the wrong size it can push your excess flesh in the wrong places.
Also the flap of material that is under the laces is there for a reason…
It is there to stop the laces pressing on your skin. As laces pulled tight on bare flesh can cut in/chaff and be extremely painful.
If you needing to wear it for a long amount of hours and your mistress expects you to bend in all different positions then you need to be as comfortable as you can.
Truthfully i think corsets were design by an angel and the devil together because it make the our shapes look heaven sent but it gives naught/wicked thoughts to any onlookers…
Saturday 3rd October
Blog No.121.
When a mistress has near on everything apart from multiplying more of what she has, your always looking out for different things to add to the collection.
This is what I have been doing over time but finding a lot of the same thing. It is not worth purchasing more canes or anal toys for example if it does exactly the same thing as all the other toys I have.
Equipment like all equipment needs to be worn in. So for me to have more things than I know what to do with is a waste of space and money.
Canes – Its all in the wrist and arm action to make an experience different.
Anal – Its all in the technique and how I use the toy on you to make it a different experience each time.
When I take my anal sessions I’m finding that my clients prefer my fingers/hand more than a solid piece of lifeless silicone eased where the sun don’t shine.
I think a lot the time when designers try to invent a new toy they come to the same conclusion. So all they can do is make it in a different colour or make it with different looking knobberly bits on it in a way that has not been made before.
My hands have a lot of experience in giving pleasure so they will be continued to perform the stimulation the way you all like it and better.
Although I have found something that I have seen in the past I over looked it before.
It will make grown men cry and balls shrive back into the body at the sight of it. Oh I love to see subs wince and the thought of what I will do next.
Being that it is made out of clear Perspex it means nothing is hidden and everything…I mean everything is seen.
The only thing I think that it has to be adjusted in the design is it needs a opening for the thallus to be easily put into place. If you are of a different girth to the open itself then it could be rather uncomfortable or damaging when you get excited.
So any small naughty boys out there who have done something you need punishing over, think wisely before taking the next step to you dream.
Don’t shy away from me boy… as you know you like a mature mistress to take a firm hold of you in one hand, given a good strong punishment to you with the other hand. Trust me…your never forget it…
APOLIGISES BUT DUE TO THE WEBSITE NOT BEING A MEMBERSHIP WEBSITE I CAN NOT PUT A PHOTO OF THE TOY AS IT IS TOO REVEALING BUT I HOPE YOU HAVE GOT A GOOD IDEA OF THE DESCRIPTION AS TO WHAT IT LOOKS LIKE.
DO EMAIL ME IF YOU WANT TO SEE A LINK TO THE PRODUCT I HAVE SHOWN ON A DIFFERENT WEBSITE…